"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting caught by parents

I Am Sam

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I got caught sneaking into a girls house and her dad chewed me out pretty bad about how he can't trust me, would beat the crap out of me if I wasn't underaged... etc.

Any idea on how to deal with this? I hate this distrust I've created.

Yeah.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In Motion

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Jesus Christ, I can totally relate to this and I just hate that feeling of distrust. However this dad seems like a complete psychopath... Do you know what his mom thinks of you?

Now, getting the dads trust back will be.. close to impossible. However if you have the daughter and mother on your team you might have a chance. But he will most likely despise you through your entire life.
 

I Am Sam

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In Motion said:
Do you know what his mom thinks of you?
Her mom likes me a lot. She doesn't really care except she said we were stupid under the circumstances in how I was caught.

And obviously the girl likes me :up:

So maybe I have a chance. Thanks for reaffirming my fears haha.
 
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