Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting by on no game, need help closing the deal

The LadyKiller

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This is contrary to the entire forum, but with work and improving my life as my main focus point, I have not been nearly as active on the dating front for several months. However, I have become very attracted to a HB9 that I met recently. Though she's a flirt, we click, she initiates kino and she's very easy to talk to.

Despite the number of likely suitors, I seem to be doing well on what can best be described as savvy and wit. With my DJ skills beginning to finally round into form (the title was a bit of an exaggeration), it's time to close the deal. That's where I need help. What is a casual 1st date that is more than coffee, etc.? So far, I've come up with a movie (she actually mentioned a flick she wants to see, but movie dates are generally eh), or a restaurant (talk more than a movie). How about a movie and THEN getting something to eat? There's probably a few ideas I am missing due to the recent dating inactivity. The only obstructions are our town doesn't boast many 1st-date attractions and it's supposed to rain all week, so mini-golf is a maybe at best.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chamber36

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Maybe u wanna skip the dates and just invite her over for dinner at your place?
Otherwise just do whatever the two of you are comfortable doing.

Point is she wants to spend 1 on 1 time with you. What you do specifically is of less importance.
 
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