"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting by on no game, need help closing the deal

The LadyKiller

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This is contrary to the entire forum, but with work and improving my life as my main focus point, I have not been nearly as active on the dating front for several months. However, I have become very attracted to a HB9 that I met recently. Though she's a flirt, we click, she initiates kino and she's very easy to talk to.

Despite the number of likely suitors, I seem to be doing well on what can best be described as savvy and wit. With my DJ skills beginning to finally round into form (the title was a bit of an exaggeration), it's time to close the deal. That's where I need help. What is a casual 1st date that is more than coffee, etc.? So far, I've come up with a movie (she actually mentioned a flick she wants to see, but movie dates are generally eh), or a restaurant (talk more than a movie). How about a movie and THEN getting something to eat? There's probably a few ideas I am missing due to the recent dating inactivity. The only obstructions are our town doesn't boast many 1st-date attractions and it's supposed to rain all week, so mini-golf is a maybe at best.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chamber36

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Maybe u wanna skip the dates and just invite her over for dinner at your place?
Otherwise just do whatever the two of you are comfortable doing.

Point is she wants to spend 1 on 1 time with you. What you do specifically is of less importance.
 
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