"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Getting brought into her world?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would think more on the contrary, it will look lame if you dont go, as if your scared. If you want her to see you as a man then go...talk to people, and take charge of the situation...dont just sit in the corner, be pro-active and have fun!!!!
 
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True, I was just about to edit and remove my post before noone answered with the comment: "I'm an idiot and get out of my comfort zone to easily".. Fact is, I'm scared.. and it's because I so easily get into a bad state where I can not have fun.. This is something I'm working on.

Reading my post I realise how pathetic I sound and am. I guess I will just have to go there and hope for the best. Altough I still don't know what the hell disco-theme is all about and what to wear lol.
 
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Definitely, Go into her world but don't make HER the focal pooint of the outing
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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