"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting bored of dating

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Has anyone felt this way before? I mean I lost my v-card and dates have been rolling in via OLD non-stop but I'm getting to the point where I have to drag myself to dates where the girl was remotely cute online but turned out to be totally not of my expectations. I have no problem kino, switching venues etc. It just seems all too mechanical to me nowadays, I can't settle.

I know my inherent value and it pains me that I have to use these girls to keep my game sharp. I can do harmless flirting and everything except intimate stuff. Its not a matter of hurting the other party but rather acting according to my own integrity that I deserve better than the type of women I've been seeing. Anyone has been in this position before?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dustmuffin

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Yes I'm in it now. Most women bore me. I get plenty of dates on old too. I'm still going out to sharpen my skills. I have two women I f uck regularly and have one or two dates a week with new blood.

I have thought about taking a break. That might benifit you too.
 
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I don't use OLD, never got into it.

However, I am in what you describing right now.

Been abroad for work alot, my last date was like 1 month ago. I had date/laid every-weekend for 8 months, now in monk style

Last night at an event for work, was the first time since monk that I actually talked to women with the goal of getting a date

My focus is around my health and my business, girls will fit no chasing.

You might want a girlfriend ;) to make dating enjoyable again

PS: Good job on the V-Card
 
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lower your standards bro and just bang as much ass as u can til u know wtf ur doing so that when u finally land your perfect 8/9/10 you wont lose her to weak game
 
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Julian said:
lower your standards bro and just bang as much ass as u can til u know wtf ur doing so that when u finally land your perfect 8/9/10 you wont lose her to weak game
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Good advice. Practise makes perfect.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bible_Belt said:
Dating is for suckers. You don't have to date to fvck. They are two vastly different things.
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That's what I think. I don't want to waste time dating. Have to pre-qualify them first and then go for the kill.
 
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