"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting back with her

navyseal2101

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Well i've been having a REALLY bad onitis latelly as some of you may or may not know. I've tried getting with other women, but it just makes me miss her more. Now I don't even look at women anymore, all I think of is her, but she has like tons of other guys on her now, I blew my chance by not acting quick enough. I literally had a dream of seeing her again and it was alot of fun, but when I woke up it sucked really bad lol. I woke up and was like "Wow, I need to get over her now...". She was just one of the very rare unique and extremelly attractive girls in my area, most girls are your typical slutty, chubby girls at my school, and she is now in college so I cant see her in person, but before she left she told me she'd be coming home soon, which is coming up. Should I try to get back with her or what? I've tried to move on but I cant. No other girl makes me like this, not even close.:confused:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rejected123

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Hey
Truthfully, the best thing for you to do would be to get over her. But I know you don't want to. Its hard to get over someone, you have to ctually get up and find soemone else who made you feel the way she did. It really is worth it though. I was in the same situation. BUT since you probably are not going to that you might as well make a move on her when she gets back.

You miss 100% of the shots you dont take - Wayne Gretsky
 

GaryUranga

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Im in the same situation and basically I think that youre not havign the quality of time/girl you had with her + all the emotional crap that comes with it, go find QUALITY girls, Im struggling with my oneitis who Ive broken all contact with but still it wont go away funny thing that when IVe met quality girls I stop caring about my oneitis, sadly the quality girls Ive met have been when I was on trips away from home, so no chance of wanting to keep them so yeah.. I guess the answer is finding that quality girl.

btw call me evil but once Im really interested in someone else Im planning to regame my oneitis and and then break her heart just for the fun of the eternal upper hand :p
 

navyseal2101

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Hahah, very evil. Yea, the thing is my area is ALL girls that are mabye 5's personality and looks wise at best. She was here for the summer, and next summer is the last time she'll be in the area, also same with me, so idk. My friends think im gay b/c i'm now not even trying with any other girls lol. It's getting rediculous and I know it, but I just cant get over her. UGHHHGHGHG! Mabye I need to move... anybody live in a good area?
 
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