"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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snoop8

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hey, well i broke up wit my last gf like a few weeks ago, but since i got nuttin for right now i want to go back wit her, but i need to find out wat to do! i mean how should i act? cause i dont know y, but then out of nowhere, i totally forget wat ive learn in this website and i start acting like i dont know, sort of nervous, quiet, and i dont know wat else. so i need some tips on how to over come that! and yea, also wat should i do? thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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since i got nuttin for right now i want to go back wit her

This is a bad reason for getting back together. This is an extremely needy way of thinking and you'll pay a heavy price to get back with her.


i start acting like i dont know, sort of nervous, quiet, and i dont know wat else. so i need some tips on how to over come that! and yea, also wat should i do?

Read the Bible and get out in the field. Open chicks any chance you get, even the ones you aren't sexually interested in. You'll get used to speaking to women.
 

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i mean, i do talk to them like normal but there a few i got some problems wit, i think the ones that r like the hotttest i think
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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