getting back to my best and beyond!

[S0LID]

Lessons learnt from natural

1- Girl games.

When she says anything like "this guy keeps flirting with me" etc just do not even respond to it, just change the subject.

2- Flirt with everyone.

Earlier we were in a chippy and there was this realy ugly woman serving us, he said "thank you gorgous".

3- net dating.

Do not waste any time!

He only had the net yestuarday and he has already met 1 girl off it and has 1 arranged for a shag.

 

[S0LID]

What a cool night out

We started in a bar, I saw djgirl there with her grlie mate and 2 guys who looked in their 30s and went up to her and went "hey Ter", she replied smiling "heyy nice hair and touched it" I replied "cheers son" and turned my back to her, me and the guys then left to hit the city. Suprisingly I had little emotion for the old oneitis girl, I was thinking wow, what a geek.

I knicked some guys poancho and mexican hat. I had about 6 girls approach me. I realy liked the hat though so I was like "NO CHANCE"

We get there and there isn't much talent there, as expected. I said to my mate, ok we're gonna do some approaches for fun. We did opinion openers which went something like this.

"hey guys, me and my friend here were talking and we wanted a females opinion"...."Who do you think lies more? men or women?" then wed get into convos. Some gd follow ups went "I bet you do lie!" ok...."whats your name? where you from?"

I chucked in the gd old "you know who you remind me of?....The powerfpuff girls!" Had some gd reactions here like "omg I love the powerpuff girls, I have the bag at home!!". 1 hb9 went omg thats nasty, this is where I broke into laughter and couldnt think of anything to say. She seemed pritty angry, what I should have said is "no, it's a good thing, you have big sexy eyes".

In all I could have gotten with loads of girls, but I refuse to drop my standards below a 7.

Lessons learnt

Girls are easy to open. The opinion opener is very effective. A wing man is great to have and makes it all so much more easier. Always smile. Gimmicks are great.

As I get better I'll start to flirt more, my main goal at the moment is to get used of talking to strangers.

 

[S0LID]

The greatb thing about this forum is the feedback

 

[S0LID]

Dont say what you can wink.

LESSON

My friend was with his g/f and a few of us in a bar. He was talking about marriage to her and she said, you fall for every girl! She looked at me and i smiled and lifted my eyebrow, looked at him and rolled my eyes. This was so powerful that they argued all night. I know this isnt a gd thing to do but it shows the power of a look.

This hb9 works with my cuz and we were just talking on the net. She told him she fancied me in school, the convo went like this.

[07:13:48 AM] Christopher: leanne just said you were go looking in school and she wants a date
[07:14:09 AM] THE GAME: haha
[07:15:45 AM] Christopher: honest
[07:15:50 AM] Christopher: shania's life
[07:16:10 AM] THE GAME: bless

Then I changed the subject.

The thing is Im very serious about this PUA stuff and she was popular in school while I was a geek. if she wants me I'll make her work for it.

Tonight, clubbing

 

[Double]

Originally posted by S0LID
The greatb thing about this forum is the feedback

agreed

then i will post something tomorrow after your clubbing update, have fun dude

 

[S0LID]

Wow man, that night was a complete mess up. I was meant to meet my friend in the city. So I get to the city and my phones playing up. I see a few boys I recognise, and hang with them. We go to a club and a hb8 keeps touching mewhen shes dancing, "acidently" into me. I think to myself I wont bother now, theres millions of girls and tbh I dont feel like going on the pull until I find my mates, the ones I meant to meet in the first place. Then we went to this crap pole dancing place where the girls werent even that nice... I saw a few girls there and held eye contact for a few seconds, I smiled at some, some smiled back, some didnt. I dunno what this means?? Do tell me.

Anyways I take a gamble and leave the guys Im with. I get to a phone box and manage to phone my mate. Groovy hes in a club, this will be good. I'm outside this club (hes already inside, his is my natural player mate btw). These 2 loud dorks are realy annoying me, shouting, trying to get attension and sh1t. Hes talking to this girl and goes "aww ur hair is realy nice" then he faces me and goes "your hair on the other hand...needs work". I walked by the girl and she says "aww I think your hair is nice", to me. I goes "mate I've asked around, no1 likes you". Then he shut up. So into this club and i am shocked. All night the clubs have been full of hbs everywhere.....this must be the place all the runts go. I felt like I was in 1 massive chess club. We couldnt go anywhere else cause 1 of the guys (who looked like 1 of them) had trainers on. I held ec with a girl for a few secs in here though and smiled, then I carried on dancing, this guy moved in on her before me though. Thing is, even after a smile, they dont seem to look back?? No ego damage this time as I did actualy feel in the zone.

Lessons learnt.
Have a phone which works.
Be more aggressive to aragant pratts
half smiles are cool when ec is made
Stay in clubs swarming with hbs even if it means being alone.

mind set
"how to" instead of thinking what can go wrong.
kill negatitive thinking like, Im not anyones type, when realy being with me is the best possible choice she can make.

Can you answer my questions? Also what you think about that hb9?

 

[Double]

hmm i need more information.....the MSN conversation with the hb9 i totally dont understand..

" held ec with a girl for a few secs in here though and smiled, ......Thing is, even after a smile, they dont seem to look back?? "
that i also dont understand.......you are holding EC and the girl doesnt seem to look back? what do you mean? do you hold EC for a few seconds and then smile, or do you immediately smile? personally i just look in the eyes without smiling - a little bit like a staring contest - sometimes it is really hard when the woman keeps staring - but i have to win no matter if it takes the whole night after such a long EC i only experienced good things....the girl starts to get closer to the spot i dance......till she is in the ideal to be approached. or i just walk up to her and can start dancing with her.

but overal with signs i have become a little bit sceptic. last weekend i approached 3girls, one came up to me and was threwing her azz against me, the other came up to me and gave me a playful elbow hit....and they both rejected to dance with me!....the other i approached i got no signs from her and things went pretty good....hot dancin, lots of fun and stuff.

so i start to wonder how many girls in clubs just want attention. pook said for most women the conquest of the mind is enough.

you say you dont want to drop your standards below a 7, im totally with you to not drop your standards below average.....but dont you think a 6 would be good to get more experience regarding sex. i mean think about it - you could die tomorrow and if you knew that what would you do today? having fun banging a 6 or reading a boring seduction book that you can ONE day bang 9's??as long as you dont get into a relationship with her i dont see problems!!to live is to experiment!!!

 

[S0LID]

Let me explain a little better. My cousen owns his own business. A hb9 works for him, she used to be in school with me. She told him she fancies me and thought I was hot in school. He said she wants a date with me, nd swore on his nephews life he wasnt joking. I can stay confident with hb8s but when it hits that hb9 or 10 I'm not the same.

What I mean about the ec thing is that i hold ec with a girl for a bit, but then she doesnt look back.

 

[Double]

"What I mean about the ec thing is that i hold ec with a girl for a bit, but then she doesnt look back."

you can never know for sure - maybe she is shy maybe she likes you but has bf maybe she is just gaming you who knows one gotta be strong and take risks to be a PUA.


man sounds good about the hb9! well i feel the same about really hot girls but on the other hand if a hot girl is already attracted to you it is EASY game if you play it right. i mean all the things that are preached here like dont give compliments about the appearance, be a challenge, get her qualifying to you work espiacially well with very hot girls. you gotta focus on her personality, let her feel a connection but at the same time make a little fun of her in a respectful way. i think after some minutes you will get more comfortable with her and things will run good because you know the game. if not then get drunk that would also help

 

[S0LID]

Thanks for the sound advise man, appreciated. Do you have MSN yet?

 

[S0LID]

Convo with natural PUA friend.

Tip

He was browsing through face party for chicks and i asked him "would you care if some girl replied to you fvck off you ugly cvnt" he said "no, not every girl can like me can they"

 

[S0LID]

I end up in this druggy club, everyone off their faces on pills. I dunno how I got persuaded to go to this whole. Anyways guys outnumber girls, everyones off it. People go here for 2 reasons, 1 for drugs, 2 for music. So I dance near some grls, no eye contact. I try resting my arm on this hb10s shoulder while dancing, guess what? didnt work, didnt get her attention. Danced behind this grl, kida pressing against her, she turns around, uses her hand and says "Noooooooo".

Walking to our lift, see these grls, my mates talking to them. I say , "you know who you two remind me of? the power puff girls" They replied "carry on walking".

I get home and talk to this girl i was seeing on here. we're talking about some girl who dumps her and some random girl.

[06:55:12 PM] kiss this: last time im ever caring and go and c whas
matter wif sum depressed stranger
[06:55:40 PM] Bad Boy: i wouldnt have wasted my time
[06:55:58 PM] kiss this: lol
[06:56:05 PM] kiss this: hell b the gutted 1
[06:56:11 PM] kiss this: lost 2 smart hgals in 1 nite
[06:56:24 PM] Bad Boy: as if
[06:56:25 PM] kiss this: we 2 yung 4 im anyway
[06:56:29 PM] kiss this: wha u mean?
[06:56:31 PM] kiss this: as if
[06:56:33 PM] kiss this: ?
[06:56:55 PM] Bad Boy: true guys dont care about small loosses, he can
do better and will
[06:57:07 PM] kiss this: gdnite
[06:57:15 PM] Bad Boy: night
[06:57:29 PM] kiss this: u can b a proper wanker at times
[06:57:44 PM] Bad Boy: sorry ter, but I jus tell it as it is
[06:58:00 PM] kiss this: fuk off
[06:58:04 PM] kiss this: u aint got a clue
[06:58:08 PM] Bad Boy: ok
[06:58:13 PM] kiss this: think u got it all ppphhht
[06:58:20 PM] Bad Boy: ok
[06:59:53 PM] Bad Boy: but then again u think u got it all ^_^

How do you guys think i should take this??

 

[Double]

didnt sound like a successful evening^_-

i dont understand....ur talkin to a lesbo or what??

 

[S0LID]

That MSN girl is DJ girl.

A night full of that amount of rejection and insults would ruin most guys from approaching for years, but it's fueled me to go for gold. My weakest point in my game is going to the wrong clubs. I knew how bad that club is for pick up, but all the boys wanted to go there. Theres just loadssss of 8s 9s 10s, but theres still 3 guys to 1 girl ratio and their not there to pull. If I had an ego before that night....well i wouldnt have one anymore. Some of my other hommies were in that city that night but everytime I phoned them, they couldnt here me cause they were always in a loud part of the club, fools , them guys had a great night and pulled. I cant beleive how much bad luck I have, it's just making me more aggresive!

Good news is that one of the clubs in my local town is filling up with nice girls nowdays

 

[Double]

Originally posted by S0LID
I cant beleive how much bad luck I have, it's just making me more aggresive!

haha you sound like me! well, currently i'm calmer than normal due to a low calorie low carbs cutting diet....but soon i will be back even more aggressive and energetic


thats right, in the game you gotta leave the ego at home

 

[S0LID]

What annoys me the most is how the night was planned perfect, then it all went pear shaped. The night b4 that i was in my local town, cause i went out for 1 pint. My mate and i agreed that we'll save our money for the perfect night. It was a massive gamble as when i looked through the window, it was packed full of grls, I got ec with a hb 7, oh well. From now on my club routine is as follows.

.walk in club, get ec with at least 2 pple and half smile.
.slowly walk to the centre of the club, then to the bar.
.have a few drinks here.
.then straight on the dance floor and start 3 second ruling grls.
.approach on an angle, dance on the side of them, but slightly infront.
.if I have no ec, then jus keep bumping into her, each time making the contact longer.
.then offer my hand, and claim my rejection. (anything else is a plus).
.here I'll dance for a bit and slowly move to the next target, not too soon or noticable, like im going from grl to girl.

My mindset is going to be "there are girls in here who want me, my job is to find out who they are".

equiptment needed is,

breath mints
mobile
wingman!!!!