getting back to my best and beyond!

[S0LID]

I beg to differ. Routines and manipulation makes you her God! constantly remembering all the stuff she loves, then run that into a routine. Like she told me 1 time she used to love going on little drunken adventures. 1 week later, i tell her about a drunken adventure I had and tell her how much i love them. What happened? We ended up having a drunken adventure, some serious connection points there!

It helps if you figure out what type of person she is too, makes it alot easier to connect. theres the,

Aural, like to communicate with the words they here. Visual, by what they see. kino, touchy feely.

IMO I attract a grl, but she might flake off if I don knock her into seduction. Most these girls have either had jerks or pure nice guys in their lives. You gotta be a funny neutral.

 

[S0LID]

And Matticus has a date planned for Friday. Smooth sailing.

 

[S0LID]

Not a great result, but getting somewhere.

I have 6 cans in the space of 2 hours, watching meet the fockers. So I get lost trying to find her place. I end up phoning her to find me. We get to her place 30 odd minutes late. Her DVD players in her room, so we're laying on her bed watching it, she doesnt know I'm half drunk . We're cuddling and I actualy manage to get a closed liped kiss. Then after the movie I get a real kiss. I ended up crashing there, no sex, while I was getting horny.... Now this girl has been rejecting guys for over 3 months, and she gets approached alot, I broke her no kiss thing . Anyways, this morning she I left 9am ish, shes in work at 10ish. She seemed disapointed I was leaving, tried to persuade me to stay, but no way am I letting her have the power to persuade me to do sh!t. I tried to give her a kiss but she said I can only have her cheek , I'm guessing that was a breath thing. it is scary for me to be realy forward about sex too being a virgin and all. Thing is the image I give is of this altha, cool guy.

MEMO
ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS have gum or breath mints close at hand!!!

One of my friends is crashing over my house tonight. I think we're going to a club. I'll probs see her there, next goal is to kiss her in public . I won't be sleeping over hers tonight. I'll then try and arrange a date again for next week.

I realy dont know why I thought I had oneitis cause I'm seeing shes not perfect!

 

[S0LID]

So I go to make my 2nd date. She was online. I said, "fancy joining me for a game of pool?" she replys "duno" with a shy face. So I went "sok, dw", she replys again "pmsl i duno wen im free yet avn ad nxt week rotor yet only kno im on tues at the mo (angry face) always slow she is like.

I was meant to meet her satuarday in town, but my grandad had a heart attack.

See what happens Tuesday, and then go from there.

 

[S0LID]

Date for Friday

Same girl.

I say (over MSN), so you free Friday?
he. yeh
me. up for pool?
her. I dunno
me. whats not to know?
her. I'm rubbish, I always fluke
me. ok forget about Friday then
her. why?
me. cause you don't want to?
her. I do!
me. ok kwl

What do you guys think? Give me some feedback.

 

[Double]

mhh some attidude adjustment please, comments like "you can only have my cheeks" come on if she wanna be on the pedestal then just walk away and she can see how much fun it is to be on the fvcking pedestal with nobody cheering her.

 

[S0LID]

What to do about hb8?

WOW.... Stayed over hers again, and all she wanted to do is cuddle , fair enough, I like cuddling but dam! talking about obsessed..... I tried to kiss her and she just pulls away!! I did manage a kiss with toung but then she pulls away.... (she isnt realy a gd kisser)

I ask her why wont you kiss me?? She replies, "I'm shy", and later on if I remember correct she said "you make me realy shy". I also say "don't you want to kiss me?", "yes, but I'm shy". I was starting to get p1ssed off now. I say to her "why dont you get a guy 'friend' to come down and cuddle you?" she goes "you are my friend". I say to her "if you want me to go I'll go" her reply, "nooooo stay". I here a noise, it's her room mate. Another classic was "cuddles aint scary". I ask her room mate if hb8 is shy? She replies "no, well only with kissing, it normaly takes her a month" . I had a dam bonner all night. When I got home I had a small cut on my d1ck, where it's been rubbing! i even had a dream that she jacked me off haha then I woke up and realised, as if. "When i walked off in the morning (into town to get my fry up ) I didn't even bother giving her a hug.

Since I've met her I havn't even bothered going on the pull. I don't know where I stand

What can I do? I almost feel I'm being used for gd company. I've seen pictures of her exs and I'm better looking than them so perhaps shes a bit intimidated..

She'll be online soon, shall I confront her or keep going with the flow??

 

[S0LID]

LJBF, NEXT

THE GAME. ****ing waaaaaaaa **** ed says:
ang on, u jus wanna be friends ye?
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
i duno lol
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
i dnt think ahed
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
jus take it as it comes
THE GAME. ****ing waaaaaaaa **** ed says:
tell me..... im cwl either way
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
is it such a bad thing en
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
lol
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
i never know wha i want myself c
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
i never know wha i want myself c
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
so thas y i dnt bother wif lads
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
cos i giv myself 2 much hedwork
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
and im happy so i dnt need the hassle pmsl
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
im strange i knw
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
but thas ow i think at the mo
THE GAME. ****ing waaaaaaaa **** ed says:
kk gotchya
ur jus basically a allover slow hairy ...but frendly...beast says:
u think im a **** now doncha
THE GAME. ****ing waaaaaaaa **** ed says:
nah, it's ur choice

Lessons learned
If a girl tells you she has bn in an abusive relationship, and/or doesnt trust men, NEXT
When you try and kiss her and she turns, NEXT
Every grl I have met off the net has has issues
Just cause your meeting a girl DON'T SOP MEETING OTHER GIRLS!
Never ignore red flags!
never let your guard down (I did atualy keep mine pritty strong, but let some feelings out)
all girls are just b1tches
respect is earned not given
go with your gut!

_____________

Where do i go from here?

1st off bright blonde highlights as this black hair just makes me look pale.

roaccutane will clear my skin up nicely

5lbs more muscle

kill all ego I may have

Some will, some won't, so what?

 

[Lifeforce]

Respect mate, real words off wisdom. Never ignore red flags.

 

[S0LID]

It's mad, my heart still feels hurt. I could have continued meeting her but she has too many issues, and i know I'd only end up falling madly in love. I don't want to be that pathetic guy begging for a chance, no way! I have block deleted her now. I still cant get over the fact I didnt kill her confidence. I would usualy leave her with little self worth, and make her feel like she missed out big time. I don't need anymore hate coming my way though...Time to get over her now.

Theres this hb7 I dont mind, I normaly see her in a club and we smile at eachother. I see her in coll, she alays checks me out. i think she has a gd opinion of me as I NEXTED her mate for giving me stick, and I think shes seen me with a few hbs. Also I had ec with this hb9 I pulled b4, I might give her another chance....depends, shes a bit of a s-l-u-t. It's not a done thing to be a man and walk away from a girl around here. Most guys will fight for her......pathetic.

My skins looking a bit better with this roacuttane, muscles are coming nicely (vests), hairs nearly grown out the black so I can get highlights and I might get some new cloths.

 

[S0LID]

Bar scene.

Very drunk.

My mate is approaching like mad. I give him respect for that but hes talking drunken rubbish to them.

I think he went up to these 2 girls and said, "girls, who would u prefer to fvck outta me and my fiend, because we want to fvck you both". I stood and smiled. I then went to him and said to him, "u know who them 2 remind me of? The powerpuff girls". One of them said what, so I said it to her ear. Then they both burst into laughter. You both look like bubbles. They said omg, we're twins, didnt you know, see we got the same nose. I said both turn to the side and they did. Then the guys they were with kinda pulled them away. I woulda run them by the basic, where you from, (insert rough town here as a neg). Got them laughing and then said, so what have you got going for ya apart from looks etc but the guy they were with sorta butted in.

Pritty bad performance from me. Good job I didnt have my mobile on me or i would of been texting girls who ive nexted . I'm going to go a little lighter on the booze tonight and try and put last nights petty performance behind me.

I'm going to try practising the 3 second rule tonight. My goal is at least 1 approach. I also want to approach anyone realy.
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Theres a girl who looks pritty hot on the net who lives a 5 min walk from me. Another net grl. I'll put her in the maybe pile.
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Roaccutane is working nicely, but I still have a few spots which hurt my confidence, they are my worse feature especialy as I have fair skin. I want to get these arms to 16" too.
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To help my approaches I've decided to face a fear everyday.

 

[Double]

hey solid. to possess her totally you need to get both her head and her pvssy, dont blame me i tried to push you to have sex with her! but it was anyway better to not deal with a psycho. hey my dark colored hairs are also growing out and i want to get them blonde...roaccutane didnt clear up everything but definately helped....now i only need to get a tan and maybe use benzoylperoxide. good luck with your game! btw whats up with your workout journal?

 

[S0LID]

Haha, that girl, i added her to MSN, I got into her head, and found out some stuff. it turns out she has some issues, used to slit her wrists . I had to knock her down a few pegs, telling her she was only a hb7 (not as blunt as that, though shes an 8), then I was talking to her about how guys view girls in clubs as just an object, and they will sleep with ANYTHING. I told her about this 6 who was hovering around me, and said wow a 6, she got no chance, which made being a 7 seem average . I was vibing with her so everything was subtle. She was even saying she thinks I will get a hb9.5 ! She then told me about this guys who asked for her number at a bar where she works, and get this...he's early 30s, that hurt a bit after the rubbish she gave me about enjoying being single. The truth came out how she goes for older men. I ended it by saying i havnt been online cause im busy n stuff. Then i said, "I'll speak to ya in a couple of weeks" *block delete. I then proceeded to delete her number out of my phone with all the other grls from my past which hurt alot. (it's crazy how i spent so much time building attraction making her feel good, then i spend a hour n break it all down so she feels worse about herself because of me, haha all ive done now is given her more issues ).

Me and my mate are going halfers on "The Art of Approaching" by Tyler Durden. I need to learn my pua stuff. So i'm going to take some time and get all this part of my game sorted especialy concidering there is like 4 guys to 1 girl ratio in my local clubs, 2 girls out of 10 are nice, I have been with or been rejected by some, alot of them girls have b/fs and to top it off the club is small.

I know I shoulda got into her undies but the last time I saw her I did try. I will remember your advise on that though , ty. I'll sort my training journal out soon.

My skin still isn't amazing but there is an improvement. I think it will take about 4 more weeks. i sorted my hair out and my eyeborws which nearly joined together.

Here is my pic http://www.faceparty.com/member_zoo...mber_name=s0lid&img_id=11946372&acstr=Z169E47

Theres not much more i can do to improve my appearance. I need to clear my skin and add a bit more mass. Sunbeds arent my thing, as i said before, it will make me look realy healthy now, but after a few years id look haggered and very unhealthy. Maybe spray tan...

 

[Double]

hmm i think for people with oily skin going tanning every week or every 2weeks doesnt hurt much, it's the people with dry skin who age fast. we have to battle acne, they have to battle the haggered skin. but do what you want. yeh i think a lot of this stuff here is for big cities with lots of people. things like "just approach if she rejects you, you won't see her again, it's a numbers game"yeh, like one girl i saw almost every week after rejection

 

[S0LID]

Me too man and I see her in college too.

I thought of something in clubs when she shakes her head. You can say "look hun, I'm only asking you to dance, it's not a marriage proposal". If you want to upset her, "you shouldn't be pickie, I wasn't".

 

[S0LID]

What a terrible failure of a night!

Well i hit the city with big plans of approaching. Guess what, I didn't approach once.... The girls i had my eye on didnt seem to give eye contact...maybe cause they were intimidated? So without that green light I didn't approach. I seemed to have all the ugs giving me strong signals no way will i drop my standards! 1 ug even gave me all her vouchers for drinks , thats 3 pints. I was watching some guys who were better looking than me, and the girls were just not giving signals My mate was like that girl is checking you out... I danced and looked at her, NO GREEN LIGHT! So then we catch a taxi back home and I'm looking at this hb9 who i saw in the club, she smiles and waves to me . So i get home and jack off 4 times, get no sleep, what a mess up. Why arent these girls giving green lights? Alot of people say i could model, am I intimidating girls or something?? All i seem to get is UGs trying it on with me I have no idea of how girls see me (what the hell are my looks out of 10? Id say 7), I have pritty big arms, decent shoulders, perfect posture and so on, my only downfall is fair skin..... Now, with no sleep i'm going to walk into town to get an early morning fry up.

Lessons learnt
Fvck green lights
3 second rule is a must

I might go out tonight, and try and fix this failure. I'm a AFC again. i cant wait to read this art of approaching!

Anyone want to clear any of the above up for me?

 

[Lifeforce]

Sounds like you are becoming to intimidating. You look really good from what I've seen. They probably feel inferior or something like that. You learned your lessons, that's a big step forward.

You are very correct with the 3 sec. if you want to be successful. IMO in bars girls give less signals even if they are interested. Read my lay rapport I posted a while ago and you'll find that signals can be false. Good realisations man and good luck in the future.

 

[Lifeforce]

If you want deep insight on seduction and the things behind it, pick up "the art of seduction" it's a good book as a supplement to your approaching. I think you could benefit from it alot.

 

[Double]

can you give us the link to the LR

 

[S0LID]

I got this 6 madly after me. Perhaps I should use her for sex but screw it for now. Back to my original mission, no settling or relationships.

I've got a lot of books on seduction now thanks to a realy sound guy I know. I've read 2 already and i'm on my 3rd. I'm going to tray and get through the main approaching 1s this week. Then write out all my fave approaches and apply them (using the bootcamp in one).

Also i'm spending alot of time with a friend of mine whos a natural and has layed over 200 girls. i'll be going clubbing with him soon.