"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This chick I am interested in, likes black dudes and I am white. What is a good way to get past this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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foreverAFC

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Bossman90 said:
This chick I am interested in, likes black dudes and I am white. What is a good way to get past this?
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ever see the 1980s movie Soul Man ?
 
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If she's what we in America call "black," she's right to prefer her own, and it's obvious you're slumming.

If she's white, she's insulting you, and to make such an insult shows she's damaged goods.

If you persist in approaching her, you're what this site calls an Average Frustrated Chump, orbiter, Let's Just Be Friended, or whatever, and you deserve a month of lonely masturbation.
 
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Down Low said:
If she's what we in America call "black," she's right to prefer her own, and it's obvious you're slumming.

If she's white, she's insulting you, and to make such an insult shows she's damaged goods.

If you persist in approaching her, you're what this site calls an Average Frustrated Chump, orbiter, Let's Just Be Friended, or whatever, and you deserve a month of lonely masturbation.
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not really, always was good with women until i got depressed. This is something ive never gotten past though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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pinkfl

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You can't change what she is attracted to, no more than any girl can change what you are attracted to.

It's not going to work out...if she's narrowing herself down that much, then that's just how it is.
 
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