Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting back online.

TheMonkeyKing

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Strange today that I come here and see some other posts from the likes of Inferno and Marmel talking about OLD.

This morning I had something of an epiphany that a man needs to maximise his dating potential, and that should include online. I have previously been a harsh critic of OLD, after a couple of bad experiences. I now realise that I've had bad experiences with women met in real life, and I've also had really good experiences with women met online.

Observations from the last year....

-Ninety nine percent of people are emotionally, socially or morally bankrupt; or in some cases, an unfortunate combination of all three. As such, we meet these people everywhere, regardless of the method.

-Going out meeting women drains resources. And thats even before the dating process starts in some cases. The the vetting process afforded by online dating is frankly invaluable.

-At the ripe old age of 35, I'm starting to know what a good woman looks like, and I have met the odd one online.

-I now have the confidence to deal with 9s and 10s with relative ease, just as I did as a younger man. And I want to keep banging as many as possible, while essentially looking for a GF at the same time.

I'm going back online.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pros of OLD:

You screen for the hot ones
You can get a ton of plates with it

Cons of OLD:

Diseases
They are getting 200 messages per day and you really have to stand out to have a chance
 
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