"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Getting Back Into The Game

IamRAMBO

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I'm new to this forum.

I haven't had a GF in a year. The last time I had pussy was when I pet my neighbor's cat.

My wife screwed me up about a year ago: she had sex with my best friend. I just gave up on women because I pretty much thought I was going to be with this woman forever.

What I came to realize is that all a girl really wants is a good looking guy with money who is willing to treat her like crap.

So I tried the dating thing again hoping I would grab a tittie before the nights over. It was a blind date. Big mistake. She's a fatty FOLKS! (true story) The next dillemma was trying to figure out how I was going to haul her fatass around without a cow trailer.

Luckily she drove.

We went to a bar because there was absolutely no way I could afford dinner. I was going to drink her skinny. After 4 shots of Grey Goose vodka and 2 coronas, she pretty much looked the same: FAT.

To make a long story short, yes, I f*cked her. I know no guy with any sort of standard would sink as low as I would but with every rule in the book there is usually one loophole .. alcohol.

So the million dollar question is: HOW DO I GET BACK IN THE GAME?

I know there are some players in here who sleeps with more girls than he changes underwear.

What's your advice?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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cefiro

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I am not sure of your age, but a good start to getting back in the game would be going out to a bar with a group of close friends (not the one's who would sleep w/ your wife).

If you are just looking to sleep with some women, then a bar is the best bet. Most of the women there are looking for the same thing you are, they just dont want to say it. If you go with a group of friends aka wingmen, then they can help you disarm the girls friends (since HB's rarely go out alone).
 

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1. Don't date fat chicks :up:
2. Start where you fall apart, whether it's the approach, the rapport, the close or what?
 

Cod3r

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To make a long story short, yes, I f*cked her. I know no guy with any sort of standard would sink as low as I would but with every rule in the book there is usually one loophole .. alcohol.
Oh please, I've sunk pretty low... I've done things i'm not proud of...

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I'd suggest if you just want to get back into the game you've got to approach many women and get a few interested, no alchohol and stay away from the night-scene, some day approaches to generate some nice attraction and a 1st date, the problems start after date 1... if you can approach, get a few numbers and then follow-up, will be good practice


-Cod3r
 

mrRuckus

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IamRAMBO said:
What I came to realize is that all a girl really wants is a good looking guy with money who is willing to treat her like crap.

I saved a quote here from the other day.

"Guys who are too nice do not get dumped for bad boys, they get dumped for guys who have backbone." - Blue Phoenix

"TREAT HER LIKE CRAP" > WUSS. An assh0le is genetically superior to a wuss. So she SHOULD be more attracted to the assh0le because then her children are likely to have a backbone too. Now if the nice guy had a backbone too he'd have the advantage of both worlds.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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IamRAMBO

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Shezz said:
haha very tucker max like! Love it!

Seriously though. Read some material on approaching on here (Check out a few of my Field Reports if you want) and then go out and approach some girls, you will improve with every approach. Have no fear. And have fun.

Sarge On...
Glad you notice that .. I wasn't going to throw in the punch line but it was a classic .. I couldn't help myself.

Thanks for the advice guys .. anymore would be greatly appreciated.

I know I can read the Faqs .. but they're too long .. I just want quick advices.
 
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