"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Getting back in touch with girl

No Bones

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 29, 2005
Messages
31
Reaction score
0
Earlier in the year from May through June (last year of school), I used to talk to this 8/9 HB, flirted with her etc. She started to show interest.

At the end of the summer, she phoned me asking if I'd like to celebrate the end of exams with her. I told her that I'd be busy that night, but that I could possibly meet up with her for a quick drink. I said I'd text her during the week with the details. I did, but she never responded.

Well, with the summer's over now, wouldn't mind getting in touch with her again. What's the best procedure in picking it up from here, or should I even bother? Would I lose my status ringing her up now?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Pimp-sicle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2003
Messages
2,457
Reaction score
101
Location
Pimpsylvania
Originally posted by No Bones
Earlier in the year from May through June (last year of school), I used to talk to this 8/9 HB, flirted with her etc. She started to show interest.

At the end of the summer, she phoned me asking if I'd like to celebrate the end of exams with her. I told her that I'd be busy that night, but that I could possibly meet up with her for a quick drink. I said I'd text her during the week with the details. I did, but she never responded.

Well, with the summer's over now, wouldn't mind getting in touch with her again. What's the best procedure in picking it up from here, or should I even bother? Would I lose my status ringing her up now?
She blew you off before. But, if you want to get in contact with her again the only way that's going to happen is if you call her up and set up something. You don't have any "status" with her right now, so there's literally nothing to lose.



PIMP
 
Top