Getting back in the game (got a couple questions)

[Young OG]

Okay, I was in a serious relationship for 6 years, we lived together, never married, and have a kid. During our last year together she cheated, lied, and stole. She messed up my head pretty bad for a while after the breakup. I had low self esteem and low confidence. But finally my head is on straight. But enough about that piece of trash.

So I've been getting some numbers and my confidence is going through the roof. So my questions are:

If I meet a girl that's in her early 20s and I only want to hit it, should I lie about my age? I'm concerned they will think 33 is to old.

How and when do I tell a girl I have a kid? If they come over, they will see some things in my house and will know. I'm also wondering if they will lose interest in me when they find out I have one. I don't want them to meet my kid or something.

 

[guru1000]

33 is not old for a girl in her early 20s. My age is more of a problem for an early 20s girl. My focus is women in their late 20s.

In terms of my online profile, I lie. I state age 35 and deny ever being married in the past. I don't tell them my real age because quite frankly, I don't give a damn. If ever discovered that i am 40 and questioned why I lied, I retort, "That's what liars do, they lie! Oh, and btw I was once married too." LOL

It hasn't hurt me yet.

 

[sodbuster]

No, age and a kid means you are "different" from all the men she's dated in the past..... It will intrigue her.....

 

[Desdinova]

I usually tell them I have a kid on the first date if they don't already know

 

[BetterCallSaul]

If I meet a girl that's in her early 20s and I only want to hit it, should I lie about my age? I'm concerned they will think 33 is to old.

My posted age is correct and I'm happily married. I've had 19 year olds throwing pu$$y at me.
The thing you have to always keep in mind is that middle aged men, for thousands of years, have been able to pull tail that young. Many women within the past, say, 100 years, have continued to gossip so much that the wave of modern feminism would have all of society believe that a 40 year old man dating a 20 year old young woman is just wrong. You know terms like cradle robber or some other BS like that, yet, young women are still attracted to it even today.

Don't ever feel sorry for being a man.