Getting back after beeing dumped LTR

[MightyMate]

LTRs have those manner that sooner or later come worser days. And sooner or later You dump her or she dumps You. For a moment. There are many LTRs in which people are fighting all the time breaking up and coming back.
Okay so You are in LTR You love her or care, bu she dumps You. How to get back?
Mainly You have toi be the one that dumps her [i never did that tho, i just get mad and walk away] or Ypu have to do something bad that made her dump You.
So You have ot be a man, have to do something bad sometimes. Girls love bad boys, even if they are law students. Gils want to get mad on us sometimes. SO if she breaks up because You did something wrong, that You can always get her back.
The problemis when You were a patehtic nice guy, and she dumps You because You are too nice. They need fights. If she dumped You for beeing nice, You can do anything. And if You were kicked for doing something wrong You can get back with her easly.

 

[Bourne]

Is this a tip? Rant?

Doesn't really make any concrete sense.

 

[Docs]

The base line of that mumbo jumbo was...

If you got dumped, go Alpha on her so she might desire you back...or you can get revenge.

IMO, a crappy tip, there's no point to get revenge on her, and if she dumped you...and you were in love, then you got one-itis when you're trying to get her back.

To improve this tip...
- Move onto other girls.
- DON'T BURN BRIDGES
- Don't set your heart in stone for when your heart has nowhere to stand, it crumbles beneath you.

 

[MightyMate]

I meant.. If Youa duped for a reason - Your bad behaviour, its very simle to get back. In other ways its damn hard. I think this might be useful for LTR people.

 

[tmpgstx]

If there is a break-up in the first place, the LTR has no long-term staying power. There will only be more break-ups and regrets. If you're playing games while in a LTR, then no trust has been established, and there will likely never be.

Move on to a girl that doesn't play games. If you're playing the dam games, then stop. Be real.

 

[MightyMate]

Life is a game. You dont win if You dont play.

 

[SeldomSeen]

RE:

funny, every girl Ive dated has always wanted me back whether I dumped them or they dumped me. It didnt matter if it was 5 years ago or yesterday. Sometimes people have to get away from their S.O to see what other options are out there for them. Eventually they come to reality and say "damn he was the best guy in my life... or she was the best woman Ive had"
Ive never failed to atleast reignite the flame of passion that was once there but I never go back (except once) because I feel by that time Ive moved on and wish them the best. Be a man about yours, keep your composure and your cool and you'll see.

 

[MightyMate]

Good!

 

[Ricky]

I think the biggest thiing after being dumped is to start dating other girls immediately. I did that every other time but this last time when I really loved the ex.

I loved her so much I wasn't ready to date again. But guess what. I should have anyways. I have suffered for 8 months like over her.

And the only way to get her back is to get back with other women so I have my skills up again. I know this but I still didn't do it.

 

[MightyMate]

Yeah of course. But im spekaing about those 'usual' dumps that happend in LTR once a month or once a week, on once a year.. Eveyrbody who been in LTR knows whats up. Im not spekaing about mainly dumping and nexting. Im speakiung about fixing small fights which made dump.

 

[resilient]

Originally posted by MightyMate
Yeah of course. But im spekaing about those 'usual' dumps that happend in LTR once a month or once a week, on once a year.. Eveyrbody who been in LTR knows whats up. Im not spekaing about mainly dumping and nexting. Im speakiung about fixing small fights which made dump.

You know what sucks is being dumped by a 22yr old telling you she needs to be "remain single and go find herself"... when within a month she's got a new b/f or f*buddy and all that crap about seperating was just a copout about commitment in an LTR. At least now I'm becoming more fluent in the language of ********. She could have just had the heart to say she lost interest...

That line is so true, learn to judge by actions and not by words. If your chick is hanging out with another guy on the weekend to some party or has SMSs from some dude saying she was in his dreams last night and wants his necklace back that he left over in her bedroom should send off RED FLAGS in the head.

I swear there are no advantages to being Mr. Nice Guy. She will nearly always leave for the Jerk with cool tats and hip clothing. Playing "the game" sucks...

 

[MightyMate]

"remain single and go find herself" <-- always means there is somebody else but she doesnt wanna hurt You.
Mr nice guy always looses. My LTR tips are from many years of LTRs that i checked.

 

[MightyMate]

Goddamnit guys wake up. LTR is hard stuff. Im trying to help You.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

I was the nice guy in a relationship who managed to be so nice, so caring, and at the same time so resistant to full-on commitment that the girl was COMPLETELY in love with me. I broke up with her before the start of this current semester and it was 3 weeks before she could even talk to me over the phone without crying. There's no quick fix to a relationship, and doing something mean to your ex just because they broke up with you is extremely immature, and ruins the chance that some day they might want to be friends or, god forbid, lovers again.

I got out of an LTR about a month ago and I've got to say that it's extremely hard for me to get back in the game. Before the LTR I was enjoying being single and hitting on every other girl I saw and most of all I had confidence that I could nail most of them. Now, after getting comfortable in the relationahip, almost all attractive women seem once again intimidating. I was hoping to read this thread to gain some insight into how to get back "into the game" not back "at my ex."

 

[The Juan and only]

I can't understand a large majority of what you say; if you're using some kind of translation program then upgrade it....or you may as well not bother to post.


ok, maybe that was a bit harsh but in honesty your tip is pretty poor (or maybe I just does understand what you're trying to say?).

 

[MightyMate]

Originally posted by The Juan and only
I can't understand a large majority of what you say; if you're using some kind of translation program then upgrade it....or you may as well not bother to post.


ok, maybe that was a bit harsh but in honesty your tip is pretty poor (or maybe I just does understand what you're trying to say?).

The problem is You cant get Your brain upgraded easly! Zou need zears of experience. If You dont understand my tip it means You are not ready for it yet.

 

[The Juan and only]

Originally posted by MightyMate
The problem is You cant get Your brain upgraded easly! Zou need zears of experience. If You dont understand my tip it means You are not ready for it yet.

That's not what I meant.

..I'm not saying I don't understand the concept of your theory, I'm saying that your sentances (from a language point of view) are mostly incomprehensible, and that you should try to be clearer.

 

[MightyMate]

Well.. Try this:
http://www.winterrowd.com/maze.swf

 

[MightyMate]

You completed 6th level?