"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting around without a car

Crissco

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JLay87 said:
I'd suggest a bicycle but that doesn't sound like it would work for you.

What about a moped?

Oh and there is nothing that can "lower your status" unless you let it. If you think that not having a car will lower your status then it will only do so because you chose to let it.

If a girl asks why you don't have a car then just tell her the truth; if she doesn't accept that then next the b!tch because she's worthless.
I was just looking into a moped for this summer. Pretty cheap and effective for where I need to go ATM. When you put it that way I gotta agree. Theres been times where I went out on dates without a car, and they knew and everything turned out alright. Ide rather have a car but im sure I can find some girls to drive me around.....
Anyone have opinions on getting girls to drive me around with out necessarily using them?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've been lurking for about 2 years now. Trying to learn game with my limited resources. I've achieved a lot from sosuave...better cloths, better job, better body and outlook. But I can't afford a car, I have so many student loans to pay off that a car is just not going to happen anytime soon.

I live in a small town, so not having a car is even more of a stigma. So I guess this means game over for me then. I guess I always was self conscience of this anyway. I think it just proves what my root cause of AA must be...not having a car in this town while other lesser men do. Like some sort of self imposed barrier that I reinforce and society reinforces.

I wish I had the opportunity to live in NYC, at least this way I wouldn't have this hanging over me.
Funny enough though, I don't feel down about this. If I'm not meant for dating so be it, in a way I guess I always knew this.
 

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Kailex said:
He's in New York. Half of the people in that city DON'T have cars. Hell most of the people I know from the city have never owned a car. With the Subway and the other train methods of transportation, it's almost more of a nuisance to have a car than to just use a bus/train.

I'm guessing you live way outside of the city or something similar where a car is a little more necessary?

I do think, though, that because of where you live, it's a little more acceptable to be "car-less", just as in San Francisco or Chicago.
What part of New Jersey are you in Kailex? I used to be in Secaucus and Bernardsville for the summer.

In that part, not having a car could lower your status. But I took walks on the jogging path at the condo and women favorably responded!
 

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Crissco said:
Not a bad idea. Prob is hows the quality going to be.
my friends and i have a summer motorcycle challenge. we all have to get motorcycles for less than 1k. one guy picked up a sweet honda for $750 all he had to do was replace the battery, less than 1k in total
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was just looking into a moped for this summer. Pretty cheap and effective for where I need to go ATM. When you put it that way I gotta agree. Theres been times where I went out on dates without a car, and they knew and everything turned out alright. Ide rather have a car but im sure I can find some girls to drive me around.....
Anyone have opinions on getting girls to drive me around with out necessarily using them?
I'd also recommend a motorcycle! You can pick up some pretty nice ones for cheap - I'm not talking about a Harley or a crotch rocket or any of that bullsh!t because those really do suck. Find a nice motorcycle and fix it up; once you have a motorcycle fixed up it's a lot more reliable than a car, so it won't require nearly as much maintenance.

Plus, then you'll be able to give girls rides! And it gives you the mobility of a car.
 
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