I'm 21 and tired of being smothered by my parents. I got a job making 36k a year. Go to school part time. Finished paying off a car. I rarely go out because I don't wanna deal with them getting upset over me getting late or drinking. Lately I been in a ditch with girls and Relationships in general guys too. I feel it's because my parents suck all the fun out of me and just want me to focus on working and school. Im grateful for them but I think its time to leave the bird nest. Any of u guys that has moved out can tell me if it positively affected u with the quality of life and getting laid or was it a let down? I plan on saving 5k before I do it which should be by the summer.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Seems like you are in a good situation. Should only take you a few months to save that kind of money. Better yet if you stay with your parents you could bank $50k in a few years. At 23 I wish I had $50k in the bank. This kind of money gives you incredible leverage at that age. Or you could try and prove something to yourself and spend all your money on living expenses and girls. Your parents have it right. Spend your time upgrading yourself and saving.
Do you go to the gym?
If the woman you date don't understand this it's their problem. If you are that insecure about women thinking you're broke you can always leave an ATM receipt hanging around that has a big fat balance on it.
Do you go to the gym?
If the woman you date don't understand this it's their problem. If you are that insecure about women thinking you're broke you can always leave an ATM receipt hanging around that has a big fat balance on it.
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Working and education is very important to be able to support yourself. When I moved out I spent a couple of years playing video games, nobody was there to limit me anymore. What was there to limit the fun was the things you must do if alone. Nobody was cooking for me, nobody was cleaning for me, nobody was paying the bills for me. I had to do that and it took away my fun time, I had more time while living with my parents.
Regarding women it made no difference, I was an AFC who just played video games furthering his lack of social abilities. I never brought women to my parents place, even though I could and I know my parents aren't social idiots. When I started curing my AFC behavior I started taking women to my place, except making it obstacle free to have sex I could just as well taken them to my parents house.
Regarding women it made no difference, I was an AFC who just played video games furthering his lack of social abilities. I never brought women to my parents place, even though I could and I know my parents aren't social idiots. When I started curing my AFC behavior I started taking women to my place, except making it obstacle free to have sex I could just as well taken them to my parents house.
50k at 23 how does it find you incredible leverage?
I been completely unmotivated to hit the gym. I lifted before and was seeing results that everyone was noticing but I haven't been able to find that motivation again. Sucks.