"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting angry at girl im dating

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milkncereal2

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First question is me and my girl got into a big fight over nothing. We were both hammered but anyhow it was pretty big fight. I have to "make it up" to her and im not sure if i should

1. take her to a nice restaurant (boring) and get flowers and stuff.
2. do the usual and go out to a party or club and just be extra nice. I would apologize to her when i picked her up
3. coffee and apologize kinda deal
4. your suggestion.

If it helps at all...were in college and she likes me a lot, and im into her a lot too. Normally we dont do dates, but i have taken her out on a "real date" and not a college date.


second question is kinda general...anyone have tips on how not to get crazy angry when drinking. It seems like every fifth time when drinking i get mad at something stupid. I know the cookie cutter answers...dont drink, take a deep breath, but im thinking someone might have an outside the box answer like dont drink liquor, stick to beer. THats not the answer as ive tried that. I know other young guys have this problem, you see it all the time. So either if you found a good way to deal with it, or if your an older guy and solved it please tell.


thanks for the future replies. i appreciate it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you both got into a big fight, why do YOU feel like you're the one who has to apologize? We need more details.
 
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Yeah, it'd be good to know more about the argument. Dont fall into the trap many guys do of grovelling at her knees when you have an argument, just to hurry up the peace making. If it was one of those stupid arguments where you are both to blame (has happened to me when drunk), you should both be big enough to apologise and sort it out.

About the aggression...I get it sometimes as well. That's one of the effects of alcohol for some people.. The answer really is don't drink as much (though I never stick to that :p)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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