"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting a Pretty Face

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This is something I developed years ago to improve the look of my face, drastically. Now, I don't know how the skin works for everyone, because I'm black..so that may make some small difference. Anyway let me give you the info that I use:

Mentality: Think of yourself as pretty or beautiful (in the old medievil sense, not like in any homosexual or womanly way), so you have to take care of yourself so that you remain looking like an angel (that's a more comedic approach, but you know what I mean).

Physical steps: Every time you go out, or at the minimum you must do the least by washing your face with warm or hot water. Don't use soap! Or lotion! These will lead to either bumps or pimples.

Then what I do, is I use Nuetrogena. I have three different products from Nuetrogena, and I use them in a process:

1: Wash face with hot water, then apply Nuetrogena Face Lotion (make sure you get your neck and lower chin as well)
2: Once Face Lotion is applied, the Nuetrogena Shaving Cream is applied to the necessary spots of the face and shave (I would suggest you have a good shaver, like a Mach 3, Norelco, or something even better.)
3: Then, without washing the face off with hot water, I apply the Nuetrogena AfterShave Gel, which smooths the face again.

On days when you don't need to shave all that much, just do step 1.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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prettyness is determined by genetics, and if u havent got it genetically, unlucky, cause no amount of creams and washes will change your facial structure.

good luck though...
 

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As far as I know, prettyness wasn't genetic in my family. I have a family of men with a strong, rugged, handsome look, but not pretty boys. So its a matter of mentality and how well you take care of your face.
 

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After you're done shaving.... immediately splash cold water on the parts you shaved. It minimizes the bumps (burn marks... burn+water=all better)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After you use the lotion in step 1, do you wash it off ? if ure not shaving after.. And is the lotion fine for pimples cause i have pimples and i dont want it giving me more or blocking the pores.
 

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Your skin condition can be changed by lotions/creams or such, so it isn't all genetics.
 

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Originally posted by blabla
Your skin condition can be changed by lotions/creams or such, so it isn't all genetics.
your skin condition can be changed, but your bone structure cant. you cant polish a turd.
 

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ITS ALL GENETICS

For a man to have a pretty face one of the key things is a nice jaw. Not too many guys have that, I have it some what but noone in my family does. Im looking to find a way to help it though
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If your skin is absolute acne crapped, it don't matter too much if you got a strong chizzled jaw or whatever genetic trait. Get the idea? I'm just stating the obvious here.
 
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Originally posted by jiza101
After you use the lotion in step 1, do you wash it off ? if ure not shaving after.. And is the lotion fine for pimples cause i have pimples and i dont want it giving me more or blocking the pores.
I'll answer your question.

Switch #3 with #1.

Also, not it wont be blocking your pores because Neutrogena products are non-comedogenic, which means they do not clog the pores.

I would recommend Neutrogena spf15. Sun protection is very important when it comes to skin care. I would also reccomend Cetaphil liquid wash. It is very very gentle and has moisturizer.

Which works both ways either you have oily, very oily, dry or nomal skin, it works swell! :)

Oh, and btw, good to see you. I got banned at bodybuilding.com lol.

Hey, I got my skin care help from chicas! :D

Oh, and yea, refer to acne.org message boards for skin care help.

And final words: Just because it worked for the thread starter, does'nt mean it'd work for you. Everbody reacts differently. Find the regimen that suits you. Good luck. :)
 

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I don't give a ****. I get compliments about how I'm nice good lookin all that crap, but ever since I was about eighteen and lost most of by bodyfat. I don't know its still the same face but just I guess my features can showup a bit more now that the fat is gone. Give to that I also sprouted a beard and stash that enhanced my look to. So I basically just try to keep a clean face, avoid pimples as much as I can. I don't shave I mark the hairline often so I get that fresh barber look. And keep a hairstyle flatering so that it enhances my features. That's it. Not too much greasy products in my hair, as i used to do long ago. They tend to leak when u sweat which makes for a lot of buttons. If i do uses any howeve I always carry a rag.
 

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Originally posted by playa in trainin'


Oh, and btw, good to see you. I got banned at bodybuilding.com lol.

Hey Braindmg:D :rolleyes: .
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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