"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting a Pretty Face

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This is something I developed years ago to improve the look of my face, drastically. Now, I don't know how the skin works for everyone, because I'm black..so that may make some small difference. Anyway let me give you the info that I use:

Mentality: Think of yourself as pretty or beautiful (in the old medievil sense, not like in any homosexual or womanly way), so you have to take care of yourself so that you remain looking like an angel (that's a more comedic approach, but you know what I mean).

Physical steps: Every time you go out, or at the minimum you must do the least by washing your face with warm or hot water. Don't use soap! Or lotion! These will lead to either bumps or pimples.

Then what I do, is I use Nuetrogena. I have three different products from Nuetrogena, and I use them in a process:

1: Wash face with hot water, then apply Nuetrogena Face Lotion (make sure you get your neck and lower chin as well)
2: Once Face Lotion is applied, the Nuetrogena Shaving Cream is applied to the necessary spots of the face and shave (I would suggest you have a good shaver, like a Mach 3, Norelco, or something even better.)
3: Then, without washing the face off with hot water, I apply the Nuetrogena AfterShave Gel, which smooths the face again.

On days when you don't need to shave all that much, just do step 1.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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prettyness is determined by genetics, and if u havent got it genetically, unlucky, cause no amount of creams and washes will change your facial structure.

good luck though...
 

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As far as I know, prettyness wasn't genetic in my family. I have a family of men with a strong, rugged, handsome look, but not pretty boys. So its a matter of mentality and how well you take care of your face.
 

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After you're done shaving.... immediately splash cold water on the parts you shaved. It minimizes the bumps (burn marks... burn+water=all better)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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After you use the lotion in step 1, do you wash it off ? if ure not shaving after.. And is the lotion fine for pimples cause i have pimples and i dont want it giving me more or blocking the pores.
 

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Your skin condition can be changed by lotions/creams or such, so it isn't all genetics.
 

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Originally posted by blabla
Your skin condition can be changed by lotions/creams or such, so it isn't all genetics.
your skin condition can be changed, but your bone structure cant. you cant polish a turd.
 

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ITS ALL GENETICS

For a man to have a pretty face one of the key things is a nice jaw. Not too many guys have that, I have it some what but noone in my family does. Im looking to find a way to help it though
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If your skin is absolute acne crapped, it don't matter too much if you got a strong chizzled jaw or whatever genetic trait. Get the idea? I'm just stating the obvious here.
 
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Originally posted by jiza101
After you use the lotion in step 1, do you wash it off ? if ure not shaving after.. And is the lotion fine for pimples cause i have pimples and i dont want it giving me more or blocking the pores.
I'll answer your question.

Switch #3 with #1.

Also, not it wont be blocking your pores because Neutrogena products are non-comedogenic, which means they do not clog the pores.

I would recommend Neutrogena spf15. Sun protection is very important when it comes to skin care. I would also reccomend Cetaphil liquid wash. It is very very gentle and has moisturizer.

Which works both ways either you have oily, very oily, dry or nomal skin, it works swell! :)

Oh, and btw, good to see you. I got banned at bodybuilding.com lol.

Hey, I got my skin care help from chicas! :D

Oh, and yea, refer to acne.org message boards for skin care help.

And final words: Just because it worked for the thread starter, does'nt mean it'd work for you. Everbody reacts differently. Find the regimen that suits you. Good luck. :)
 

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I don't give a ****. I get compliments about how I'm nice good lookin all that crap, but ever since I was about eighteen and lost most of by bodyfat. I don't know its still the same face but just I guess my features can showup a bit more now that the fat is gone. Give to that I also sprouted a beard and stash that enhanced my look to. So I basically just try to keep a clean face, avoid pimples as much as I can. I don't shave I mark the hairline often so I get that fresh barber look. And keep a hairstyle flatering so that it enhances my features. That's it. Not too much greasy products in my hair, as i used to do long ago. They tend to leak when u sweat which makes for a lot of buttons. If i do uses any howeve I always carry a rag.
 

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Originally posted by playa in trainin'


Oh, and btw, good to see you. I got banned at bodybuilding.com lol.

Hey Braindmg:D :rolleyes: .
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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