"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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golf299

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NOTHING! as many people here are so thoughtfully explained...here's there proof in the pudding: a girl i know just gave her number to 2 different guys in the past couple days and she promptly explained that "i would never, ever date either one of them, but i gave them my number". she was making fun of the one dude b/c he was stuttering and sh*t when he was going for the # close...

that is messed up, but that's what happened, and i believe that is what happens more often than we like to imagine.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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stevey_2000

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myself when approaching you like to feel the sense of both people (me and the b*tch) have a decent conversation going, there are plenty of eye contact and a bit of KINO going before you ask for her number,

initiative takes over when deciding if you think the two of you are compatable to take things further...
 

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Girls hate rejecting guys directly...This is also why girls will make up endless excuses ("Um, I need to help my mom clean carpets") instead of flatly rejecting you for a date...Or why they tell guys "Let's just be friends" even if they have no interest in being friends.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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The phone number is usually a waste of time until after you gone out with a woman and she gains a high IL. If her IL isn't high enough, her number isn't worth the paper it's written on.
 
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