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Luthor Rex

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A friend of mine is dating a girl who needs a lawyer. She was served right before Christmas and has to go to court next week.

He is telling me she couldn't get a lawyer because "she couldn't get one on such short notice, they don't work during the holiday". Um... I would think that's bullsh!t, these are lawyers we are talking about.

What is disturbing to me about this is not that she thinks she couldn't get a lawyer but that my friend, who is otherwise sane and rational, agrees with her and defends her position.

I know we have some lawyers here... what do you think? Could she have gotten one during the holiday? Or maybe even a better question: on how short of notice could anyone pop into a lawyer's office and say "I need help in civil court"?

Also, the other party does have a lawyer with him; so I imagine she'll be eaten alive in court.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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on how short of notice could anyone pop into a lawyer's office and say "I need help in civil court"?

If you called around to different attorneys, you could probably get one within a few hours, at least in the small town where I live. I can't say it's that way everywhere, but cash talks. Write the check and you get the lawyer right away; if it is too soon for them to adequately prepare, they can request an extension. Usually it is no big deal.
 

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I was in need of a lawyer on July 4th... and on July 4th a Saturday I managed to get a lawyer away from a party. People are still working through the holidays. Granted maybe you'd have trouble Christmas day but we are way past that.
 

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I kinda figured this was all bullsh!t about "not being able to get a lawyer". I tried to tell my friend what was up, but he didn't want to listen (I guess because that would mean "not taking her side" or some silly sh!t).

When a person's behavior contradicts their stated motive, it's always best to assume there is another motive at play. The question is, why would this girl want to LOSE in court?

*sigh* people are so disappointing...
 
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