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getting a lawyer during the holidays

Luthor Rex

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A friend of mine is dating a girl who needs a lawyer. She was served right before Christmas and has to go to court next week.

He is telling me she couldn't get a lawyer because "she couldn't get one on such short notice, they don't work during the holiday". Um... I would think that's bullsh!t, these are lawyers we are talking about.

What is disturbing to me about this is not that she thinks she couldn't get a lawyer but that my friend, who is otherwise sane and rational, agrees with her and defends her position.

I know we have some lawyers here... what do you think? Could she have gotten one during the holiday? Or maybe even a better question: on how short of notice could anyone pop into a lawyer's office and say "I need help in civil court"?

Also, the other party does have a lawyer with him; so I imagine she'll be eaten alive in court.
 

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on how short of notice could anyone pop into a lawyer's office and say "I need help in civil court"?

If you called around to different attorneys, you could probably get one within a few hours, at least in the small town where I live. I can't say it's that way everywhere, but cash talks. Write the check and you get the lawyer right away; if it is too soon for them to adequately prepare, they can request an extension. Usually it is no big deal.
 

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I was in need of a lawyer on July 4th... and on July 4th a Saturday I managed to get a lawyer away from a party. People are still working through the holidays. Granted maybe you'd have trouble Christmas day but we are way past that.
 

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I kinda figured this was all bullsh!t about "not being able to get a lawyer". I tried to tell my friend what was up, but he didn't want to listen (I guess because that would mean "not taking her side" or some silly sh!t).

When a person's behavior contradicts their stated motive, it's always best to assume there is another motive at play. The question is, why would this girl want to LOSE in court?

*sigh* people are so disappointing...
 
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