"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting a girl's number than getting her friends number right in front of her?

Tear Gas

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I was at a bar last night, and this one chick kept eye fcking me so i just went over and talked for a little bit than got the digits. I noticed her friend was into me as well, but didnt know if it would be rude or not to get her friends number too when her friend was right there so i didnt do anything....:rockon: Anyone done this before? I'm thinking the girl would get pissed at first, but deep down she'll be like "damn, i gotta work for this guy, he has so many options, what a playboy" :whistle:

i was thinking if i woulda just asked if she would mind if i got her friends number as well :confused: How should i handle this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Bat

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You turn to the friend and say, "In case (original target) decides to play phone games and doesn't reply to my calls, let me get your number down so you can haul her a$$ and tell her to not let go of a rico suave guy like me who can manage to get both of your numbers in less than 5 minutes the first time we met."

If she says No, then you turn to the target and say, "Mmm..must be hard for a cool girl like you to hang around party poopers like her, huh?"

Done.
 

DJsomeday

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I wasn't logged in and wasn't planning to, but you made me do it Bat, let me say this, i'm not for canned lines but that.is.fckin.gold.
 
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