"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Getting a girls number in front of her dad..

Chickfight

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This is kind of a new situation for me. I'm waiting in line at safeway today when this hot girl wearing these sexy teeny shorts and and an older guy who I'm assuming was her dad come up in line behind me. I give them a brief glance before looking away and I notice (peripheral vision win) the girl moves unnecessarily more into my line of sight. You know that gut instinctual feeling you get when a girl is subtlety admiring you and trying to get your attention? Well I got that.
I hand the dad one of those seperator things and while his back is turned, me and her exchange some flirty looks while she's talking to him. So we're starting to get on the same vibe. After a bit, he notices this and turns around and kind of gives me the evil eye, so "Ah well **** it" I thought, I'm leaving the day after tomorrow anyway. So I payed for my sh!t and was on my way.

For future reference though. Is there any way I could have managed to get this girls number in front of her dad? Or was it just impossible?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ace_Magnamus

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unless you wanted a black eye after lol

that sucks the dad was there

i dont see anyway you can with the dad unless you wrote your number on a piece of paper and handed it to her without the dad watching.

or you could of wrote your number on the paper and handed it to her and said...."here you dropped something." my old high school game

you got screwed with that one dude
 

powpow

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no reason to try to distract the dad.

one day, my friend and I had an epiphany to hit on girls while they were with their mom or dad. we came to the conclusion that its fine.

I did this. The moms thought it was cute that I thought enough of their daughter to go for it. The dads, although usually pissed off at first, admired the balls that it took.

Of course I included both of them in the conversation, and introduced myself. Its totally cool. Just dont be scared.

Think about it from a dads perspective. Like, this kid has balls. If I were a dad, I would want my daughters boyfriend to have that kind of balls. Wouldnt you?

The only thing is you cant be all like, sup b!tch, you wanna fvck later? you gotta be a little bit more discreet. But its worth a shot. No grown man is gonna hit you in the face for hitting on his daughter. He might tell you to scram. Or ****block. But its a no lose situation really.
 

Masculinity

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powpow said:
no reason to try to distract the dad.

one day, my friend and I had an epiphany to hit on girls while they were with their mom or dad. we came to the conclusion that its fine.

I did this. The moms thought it was cute that I thought enough of their daughter to go for it. The dads, although usually pissed off at first, admired the balls that it took.

Of course I included both of them in the conversation, and introduced myself. Its totally cool. Just dont be scared.

Think about it from a dads perspective. Like, this kid has balls. If I were a dad, I would want my daughters boyfriend to have that kind of balls. Wouldnt you?

The only thing is you cant be all like, sup b!tch, you wanna fvck later? you gotta be a little bit more discreet. But its worth a shot. No grown man is gonna hit you in the face for hitting on his daughter. He might tell you to scram. Or ****block. But its a no lose situation really.
I agree with this ^^.

I would have just acted like she's an old friend and assume familiarity right off the bat, pull her to the side and tell her the truth once you have her separated. She'll find it really attractive that you had the guts to take her away from her DAD because you're THAT interested in her. Try it next time.
 

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Brah I got a good one for it. If she is keen she will be game and follow your lead. Say oh hey there um?(let her introduce her name) havn't seen you in ages since I left school forgot your name for a second. Oh hi you must (her names) dad pleased to meet you we used to go to school together. This would disarm the dad and he would be cool because he thinks you already no eachother. Then switch to her and say can I grab your number again I dropped my old fone into a pond? Get it and say it was good meeting you again and it was nice to meet you sir and be on your way.
Let the sexting begin. lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Deadly_Ripped

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Rick all of that is based on false pretenses and the girl would have to be actually psychic in order to understand that you're pretending to be an old friend to disarm the man you believe to be her father.
 

Slick Rick-NZ

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Um prity sure its obvious, as I said if she was keen.
All you have to do is get her name out of her.
If she wasn't keen she would just be like what???
Then heer dad would look at you angrily as you quikly turn around.
I really like your idea though it is awsome.
 
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