"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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getting a girls number and not calling -- bad move ??

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Please Advise on this:

If you take a girls number and she gives it to you. But you never called it ( from anxiety or whatever)

Does that ruin your chances with her?


I Had this experience in the past, where tihs girl gave me her number , I never called it and 2 weeks later I ran into her again and said we should met up to which she said, " WHY didn' t you call me...?" After that point, the whole relationship turned sour. I think it shows weakness from anxiety of not calling...Sometimes you 've just got to get it done no matter what

I am in a similar situation now. I got a differents girls number a few days ago, and I haven't called her yet . I will see her tuesday, but before that should I call her???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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YES, YOU SHOULD CALL HER.

This is a prime example of learning from your mistakes.. Did you just forget what happened when you did not call the other girl?

Rub one out and grow a sack and call her.

SHE WANTS YOU TO CALL HER.

edit: Also, when you see her again on Tuesday you will be further ahead with her.
 
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stand said:
YES, YOU SHOULD CALL HER.

This is a prime example of learning from your mistakes.. Did you just forget what happened when you did not call the other girl?

Rub one out and grow a sack and call her.

SHE WANTS YOU TO CALL HER.

edit: Also, when you see her again on Tuesday you will be further ahead with her.
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thanks.
 
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imo if you know you are going to see her again, calling her or arranging to call her is redundant. If, however, you tell her you are going to call, then don't call and lastly act nervous around her because you didnt call i think you mess yourself up
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why do you take a girls number? Is it to be her phone buddy and talk for hours? If that's what you think then :kick:

The whole point of getting a phone number is so that you can call her, arrange a date for you two to meet up and thats it.

Personally I hate talking on the phone. I much rather talk to a person face to face.

BTW, this point applies to the period of time after you recently get her number.
 
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Tell her u were busy and if she doesnt like it she can ****ing kick rocks.
 
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Bad move? That's really your call. Did you want to get intimate with this chick? If yes, then sure maybe a mistake. If no, then why even get the number?

Either way, not calling a girl after you get her number isn't the end of the world. If she was attracted to you enough to give you her number, I'm sure she's understanding enough to meet up even though you didn't call her the first time. It even possibly has her wondering a little bit why you didn't call. It's really your call.
 
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