Getting a girl to dump you.

[ExtraDry]

Hey guys I'm 19 but i decided to post this here so that i could get some more experienced opinions.

I've been dating a girl for a year now and things have changed, im finding her less attractive, she's slowly gaining weight and i feel shallow about it. She's fun to be around and all but i thought it would have ended ages ago, I've been looking forward to that excited feeling of asking girls out and the experiences of getting rejected, learning and changing and having fun before i settle down but it feels like this girl is never gonna stop liking me. And she doesnt want to leave this little town, ive been looking forward to moving to the city whenever i sugest this she crys.

So i want to end it, but she is a great girl and many people in reality and in these posts have trouble finding good women soo, i still love her i just dont have time for me anymore because were together all the time,

So in short is it a bad decision to end it, have any of use been in this situation did u regret or were u glad u did it.

And i can't dump her because that would disrupt my life and social circle to much, so how do i get a girl to dump me?

I'm feeling suffocated and that possibilities are leaving but at the same time im feeling that i have something many guys dont and i may throw it away.

 

[Pair A Dice]

This will probably be moved soon enough, but here are my two cents.

Try to pull away from her as much as you can. Limit the time you see her and how much you see her. Try to only hang out once a week and always have a reason as to why you can't. If she tries to get intimate, say your tired or something. Eventually she will ask what's up and you can just tell her, 'I don't know.' This will get her wheels turning and eventually she'll want to end it with you.

 

[Knight's Cross]

You can and must dump her. You don't have to be a jack a$$ about it, but for your own learning experience I'd suggest doing it. So, tell her you need to talk, pick a public place, and tell her you don't have feelings for her anymore. Let her cry, let her boohoo, but be a man about it. Tell her that you want to move on with your life and suggest that she does the same.
You have no idea what this will ultimately do for your social standing. You either initiate the breakup and shoot skyward in other girls eyes, or you be the dumpee and take a huge nosedive in the ratings. There is always more power in relationships being the one who needs the other less. Women are keenly aware of this fact.
Choose now to be a man, or choose to be a weak run away from the issue and hide. I know these words sound tough, but you need to hear them.

KC

 

[FairShake]

Grow up and handle your business like a MAN.

There, I said it. Like a MAN. People love to wax poetic about what being a MAN is. As if it's fighting MMA, negging HB10s, or acting uninterested. To me it's NOTHING if not handling your business. Don't do the pvssy thing. Face your consequences. Worried about your social circle at 19? At your age that thing changes every couple weeks anyway!

 

[konmai]

Grow up and handle your business like a MAN.

Exactly.

 

[MaddXMan]

Ending a relationship is a part of life. Make a clean break. Be nice as you can about it, but firm. Say it's just not working out for me, or I'm not feeling the relationship any more. It's stressful thinking about having that conversation, but trust me, once said, and you leave and are in your car driving home or whatever, you will feel a weight lifted from you. Sure she'll be hurt but will get over it in time.