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Getting a girl to dump you

Lexington

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It's been suggested many times before on these forums that if you suddenly adopt AFC behaviors whereas you were previously acting "alpha," it's a sure fire way to get dumped with the classic "it's not you it's me" speech. Has anyone ever tried this and has it worked?
 

kingsam

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DJ_Hero said:
Well I suppose your way could be a bit of fun but if she really likes you it might take a while to actually get dumped. Why not just dump her yourself if you wanna break up?
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altho i would try and find a backup/plate before you actually finish it so you dont accidently get stuck in a rut trying to find new women...
 

TheBucketOfTruth

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Just be a man and break it off if that's what you want. Going the other route is just wrong and there's always the chance that it will backfire and she'll embrace your AFC neediness and your coming on too strong.
 

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This has never worked for me. If a girl has her eyes on you, it's hard to shake her. If you start being needy, they'll eat it up as a sign that you like them. You just can't win in this scenario, and it's a lot more trouble than it's worth. Just break it off with her...you'll be so much happier once you do.
 

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Go on, do it, make her day. Let her think she has tamed you. lol

I'd like to see what happens after that.
 
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