Rhino22 said:
Dude, I am sorry but not all girls are even like that. I had a girl a$$ naked on my couch the other night and she is not a "game player" at all. In fact, she said she hates that crap and when she first saw me she thought, "Oh great another good looking ****y guy."
When did Bible Belt (or anyone else) tell you to "play games". It's just good common sense that shaking hands and being all unsure about yourself won't get you anywhere. Confidence is attractive. In business. In dating. In sports. It just is. And you know it is.
And what about D Bot's posts about being genuine and NOT playing games???He seems more successful then anyone else in here.
Once again "playing games" is different than "be a man". Her little brother's 12-year old friend walks up to her, shakes her hand, and tells her how pretty she is. You, on the other hand, say:
"Hey what's your name?"
"What do you like to eat...other than fast food?" :she laughs:
"Okay, great. So me and you are going to go get a real dinner then. What's your number?"
You're calm, you're confident, and you're in and out of her life before she knew what hit her. That's not game playing. It's just an improvement on shaking her hand and handing her a piece of paper with your number scribbled on it.
In that scenario, you didn't ASK for her number. You expected it....you expected it because you're awesome and she's supposed to want to be with awesome guys. If she denied you, it's because she dates losers, and you want nothing to do with her.
That's your new mindset. Tattoo it somewhere where you wont forget it.