I had started a thread about giving a girl butterflies and some guy said I should give SS a try. Im gonna read some stuff about SS in the future, but can anybody tell me how to use SS in order to give a girl butterflies and make her get infatuated with you?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
getting a girl infatuated with you
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's more about who you are than what you say. SS and NLP are good for seasoning your skills but I wouldn't have my game rely on it. It will make you look like a televangelist.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Try talking to her about high school crushes , who she had a crush on and what it was like, what it feels like when you first start ti get that tingling like youre "noticing" someone like that.
You do not want women to be infatuated with you. Why, because infatuation is ugly. Anyone who was ever infatuated with a woman and wondered why she was so cold and distant, why she lost all interest when you told her you liked her, or loved her, and wondered why she just didn't want you; well, it's all put into perspective when you become the object of infatuation. It's a hellish experience prying off the interest of a woman you just have no desire for, and the thing is that infatuation usually always occurs with women you do not want. You see they are desperate and you just want to run, but cling they will, even to your smallest words. Give them an inch and they will take a mile.
You can't make any girl get infatuated with you. It happens on its own. Can a 300 pound walrus 'push your buttons' into being infatuated over her? I rest my case.Can anybody tell me how to... make her get infatuated with you?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
read the "vronski SS lessons" that were posted a couple months back for some good SS material. Also If you go to www.fastseduction.com , and the PLAYER'S GUIDE (as opposed to mASF or some other link) you can find a ****load of info on patterning and eliciting values. It goes deeper and deeper into depth but you can satify your thirst with reading 1 or 2 articles
Dont you think this comparison is a bit extreme? I know its probably impossible to get a hot girl infatuated with you if she ****ing hates your looks. However theres some cases where there is physical attraction (and maybe even sex ;-)) but the "crush" thing isnt there.You can't make any girl get infatuated with you. It happens on its own. Can a 300 pound walrus 'push your buttons' into being infatuated over her? I rest my case.
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What does SS mean!?!?
LordBrian
Don Juan
SS means Speed Seduction. It was made by a guy named Ross Jeffries. Its basicly NLP. Neuro Linguistic patterning?.... or Hypnotism.. though that word really doesnt fit what NLP is....Originally posted by Apprentice DJ
What does SS mean!?!?
Does it work? Yes.... But there are many other ways besides SS talked about in this forum.