I had started a thread about giving a girl butterflies and some guy said I should give SS a try. Im gonna read some stuff about SS in the future, but can anybody tell me how to use SS in order to give a girl butterflies and make her get infatuated with you?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
getting a girl infatuated with you
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's more about who you are than what you say. SS and NLP are good for seasoning your skills but I wouldn't have my game rely on it. It will make you look like a televangelist.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Try talking to her about high school crushes , who she had a crush on and what it was like, what it feels like when you first start ti get that tingling like youre "noticing" someone like that.
You do not want women to be infatuated with you. Why, because infatuation is ugly. Anyone who was ever infatuated with a woman and wondered why she was so cold and distant, why she lost all interest when you told her you liked her, or loved her, and wondered why she just didn't want you; well, it's all put into perspective when you become the object of infatuation. It's a hellish experience prying off the interest of a woman you just have no desire for, and the thing is that infatuation usually always occurs with women you do not want. You see they are desperate and you just want to run, but cling they will, even to your smallest words. Give them an inch and they will take a mile.
You can't make any girl get infatuated with you. It happens on its own. Can a 300 pound walrus 'push your buttons' into being infatuated over her? I rest my case.Can anybody tell me how to... make her get infatuated with you?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
read the "vronski SS lessons" that were posted a couple months back for some good SS material. Also If you go to www.fastseduction.com , and the PLAYER'S GUIDE (as opposed to mASF or some other link) you can find a ****load of info on patterning and eliciting values. It goes deeper and deeper into depth but you can satify your thirst with reading 1 or 2 articles
Dont you think this comparison is a bit extreme? I know its probably impossible to get a hot girl infatuated with you if she ****ing hates your looks. However theres some cases where there is physical attraction (and maybe even sex ;-)) but the "crush" thing isnt there.You can't make any girl get infatuated with you. It happens on its own. Can a 300 pound walrus 'push your buttons' into being infatuated over her? I rest my case.
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What does SS mean!?!?
LordBrian
Don Juan
SS means Speed Seduction. It was made by a guy named Ross Jeffries. Its basicly NLP. Neuro Linguistic patterning?.... or Hypnotism.. though that word really doesnt fit what NLP is....Originally posted by Apprentice DJ
What does SS mean!?!?
Does it work? Yes.... But there are many other ways besides SS talked about in this forum.