"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Getting a girl before she goes back to her country

pikachu_69

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There's this HB I want to bang before she goes home back to her country, I didn't realise she was on a short course here and I thought she was on the same program as me so would be here till after xmas. She's from the same country as me however I'll be returning abroad after I see my family in the new year. I wanted to approach her for ages but she's always with this guy (turns out to be her classmate) I finally approached her when the guy went to the bathroom when we were in a busy cafe. Couldn't number close due to lack of time to build rapport, but I haven't seen her till today so it's been 2 weeks since that interaction.

Admittedly due to the crowded nature of the cafe I was wary about showing my interest too much so may have been friend-zoned just by the convo alone, so I concocted a plan to get my wingman to c0ckblock her classmate and distract him while I game her, however I saw her today with her classmate again and she kind of looked down as she passed by me and my friend, I said hey, and then after about 2 secs she looks back then smiles and says hey. Maybe I shouldn't read too much into that but I can't see how i'd isolate her, any tips?

Also, she's not around much anymore cos I think exams have finished so that cafe she studies in day in day out she's never there anymore unfortunately. She's a stunner though and would help me get over my oneitis as I need more plates while I'm NC'ing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Swashbuckler

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When you see her next time, just club her on the head and drag her back to your cave, so you can fornicate wildly.
 

Big Poppa

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Or slyly reach around her back while talking to her and slip some roofies in her drink. Wait for the effects, act like your a friend carrying a passed out sister, pop that b1tch in the back seat and go to tuna town.

Just go up to her next time you see her. If she's with friends, smile and say hello to all of them, and then ask if you can borrow her for a sec. Make sure you take her to where she's still within eye sight of them but where you can't be heard.

Then say, "Hey, this is really random, but your sorta cute *wink devilishly* So I just wanted to introduce myself, *offer hand and shake her hand with her palm facing down*."

The rest is up to you. All that fluff talk always gets on my nerves. The direct approach is so much faster and you let you know your interest right away. But make sure the first time you compliment her looks is the last.
 
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