"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting a girl before she goes back to her country

pikachu_69

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There's this HB I want to bang before she goes home back to her country, I didn't realise she was on a short course here and I thought she was on the same program as me so would be here till after xmas. She's from the same country as me however I'll be returning abroad after I see my family in the new year. I wanted to approach her for ages but she's always with this guy (turns out to be her classmate) I finally approached her when the guy went to the bathroom when we were in a busy cafe. Couldn't number close due to lack of time to build rapport, but I haven't seen her till today so it's been 2 weeks since that interaction.

Admittedly due to the crowded nature of the cafe I was wary about showing my interest too much so may have been friend-zoned just by the convo alone, so I concocted a plan to get my wingman to c0ckblock her classmate and distract him while I game her, however I saw her today with her classmate again and she kind of looked down as she passed by me and my friend, I said hey, and then after about 2 secs she looks back then smiles and says hey. Maybe I shouldn't read too much into that but I can't see how i'd isolate her, any tips?

Also, she's not around much anymore cos I think exams have finished so that cafe she studies in day in day out she's never there anymore unfortunately. She's a stunner though and would help me get over my oneitis as I need more plates while I'm NC'ing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Swashbuckler

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When you see her next time, just club her on the head and drag her back to your cave, so you can fornicate wildly.
 

Big Poppa

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Or slyly reach around her back while talking to her and slip some roofies in her drink. Wait for the effects, act like your a friend carrying a passed out sister, pop that b1tch in the back seat and go to tuna town.

Just go up to her next time you see her. If she's with friends, smile and say hello to all of them, and then ask if you can borrow her for a sec. Make sure you take her to where she's still within eye sight of them but where you can't be heard.

Then say, "Hey, this is really random, but your sorta cute *wink devilishly* So I just wanted to introduce myself, *offer hand and shake her hand with her palm facing down*."

The rest is up to you. All that fluff talk always gets on my nerves. The direct approach is so much faster and you let you know your interest right away. But make sure the first time you compliment her looks is the last.
 
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