getting a girl away from another guy

[realsmoothie]

I was at the bar the other night and had two girls in particular be very responsive to my attention. VERY responsive.

Problem was - and this is weird because they are completely seperate - they were both sort of there "with" guys. One had been sort of dating a guy and was just getting out of it, the other was thinking about dating a guy. Both guys were there.

It was obvious to me that the girls would have preferred to be with me, but couldn't get away from their guys even for a second. These guys were insecure around me (it was obvious what their girls wanted).

Now, around some girls, particularly those with a little more confidence, they would just make sure to get away somehow so we could have some alone time to "clarify" things with me. But these two were a little shy and not the best at dealing with drunk, horny guys who thought they had a "claim".

So my question is: does anyone have a good way of defeating these c0ckblockers? Something besides a "get off my b*tch" gangsta move, please.

 

[d9930380]

Unfortunately mate, these girls where with guys. It doesn't matter that the relationship isn't clear-cut. They came in with them and I think it's disrespectful of the girls to then pick up some guy infront of them.

I'm sure they would think the same. However their problem isn't your problem. Wait until the girl leaves her seat and walk over to her. She needs to go to the toilet at some point.

Be preparred for angro from them though. Is it really worth it?

 

[Tomatoes]

Unfortunately mate, these girls where with guys. It doesn't matter that the relationship isn't clear-cut. They came in with them and I think it's disrespectful of the girls to then pick up some guy infront of them.

I'm sure they would think the same. However their problem isn't your problem. Wait until the girl leaves her seat and walk over to her. She needs to go to the toilet at some point.

Be preparred for angro from them though. Is it really worth it?

First off.....IGNORE PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING d9930380 just said......no offence dude but thats sh!t advice. You dont intercept a girl on the way to the loo......She needs a piss dude! You will be lucky to get the time of day off her.

Im pursuming that you were already talking with them and AMOG'ing the other guys. If so....nice work......isolation=close.

Isolation is necceary for you to make a close. Its alot easier to close a girl if her friends are not about.....exp clingy guy friends.

My favorite isolation is "Would you like to dance?"

It will give you a chance to get out of sight and alone with her.

Others include things like "Im going to the bar would you like a drink?"

Get her to come with you. Its an IOI if she does....you know shes not happy with her present company.

You can use pretty much ANYTHING to isolate a girl......(This time of year) "Woah its hot in here.....want to nip outside for a min?"

Once again. If she likes you she will say yes because she knows what you are talking about. She knows what your doing.....so does everyone else....but you are being sutle.

If the guys give you trouble just say "Look mate we are only going to (lame excuse). Its not like we are getting married or anything....."

It will show his AFC insucurites and show you aint going to faulter to a little sh!t.

The only other thing to recommend is having a wing....pref one whos not pulling....He can chat to her guy friends and keep them ocupied while you work your magic. They can buy you more time. Back you up. Give social proof.

Anyways hope this helped. Good luck



Sarge On!

 

[flexion_]

If the girl is giving you interest then go up and talk to her. Engage the guys in the conversation and just be a happy fun guy. Its not like you are sticking your tongue down her throat. You apparently know all of these people so a conversation shouldn't be a problem.

Isolation is the key. Don't expect to try to make any particular progress sexually in a group; but, by all means throw out options for isolation in the group.

"Ya me and ... are going out for coffee later."
"I'm just heading over to the bar to get a drink."
"Its pretty loud in here... going to head out to the patio."

etc...

Don't get into a fight or act all insecure in front of the guys.

 

[realsmoothie]

Oh no, I was definitely talking to the guys, too. And it's not like they're "with" the other guys... it was more of a group thing where it was understood that the guys were interested but it wasn't really happening.

Basically these guys would not even seperate for gettting a drink or going outside. No kidding, these are some paranoid dudes... dorks, really.

I guess I'll just have to work really hard in the 45 seconds where the guy is in the bathroom... :cuss:

 

[Phyzzle]

We call these guys "barnacles"

Often, a hot chick in a bar will be surrounded by a layer of guys 3 deep - and not one with the balls to talk to her.

But I don't get it . . . how do you about these girls and their love life? Do you know them? Why don't you, uh, call the girls later or something.

 

[realsmoothie]

#1 is a friend of an ex-girlfriend. We've known each other for maybe a year, but I see her VERY sporadically at the bar. It was her birthday and she was drinking... which led her to finally being able to show me that she was interested in me. But she was sort of getting close to seeing this guy that was there that night.

At one point this one grabbed my hands and put them inside her top on top of her boobs... the guy she was "with" was not impressed. But he managed to stick to her hip and stay with her. I just I just lacked the resolve to step in and take her away.

#2 is a friend who I've sort of been hanging out with, we know each other well. It's not really a good example for this thread because I can call her outside of the bar and do stuff... I was just using her as an example of a girl that has a guy who likes her who won't leave her alone for a second.