getting a gf

[pyros]

so, when you're looking for a LTR... do you look for girls that are below your sexual value? I mean, let's say your a 7. Do you go for girls that are 7 and below?

I ask this because it seems many guys including myself attract girls that we do not consider that attractive, but they are attracted to us because if you pay attention, they are below your own sexual market value.

And trying to go for a hotter girl it is a lot more difficult. You can compensate this by including other stuff to the ecuation like: fame, money, some skill etc.
but if we consider just the appearance, we tend to attract girls below our value, because hotter girls go for guys with more value than themselves.

I am a bit tired of attracting girls I don't find THAT attractive, while the hotter ones (HB7.5 and above) ignore me if I hit on them basically.

So, should we 'settle' for these type of girls?
I am getting bored of being rejected/ignored by hotter girls lol.
Besides, in this day and age, even normal girls like HB6.5 have so many options that they believe they're HB7.5 or HB8. I normally see these girls with guys that are slightly above their own value, ie, guys that are more attractive than them.

Anyway, I am trying to add muscle to increase my sexual market value...

Thoughts?

 

[salinechow]

Shoot for the stars and you’ll hit them moon. Always go for the best. Manageable and wife worthy 8.5s exist but they are rare. Sarge and sort. You will find her. The hot button word you should never use though is settle. Dont just settle for a 7 or less because your experience dictates that you should. Break the molds of your history and sarge and spin plates. Allow in all who treat you well and rev your engines but don’t settle. You’ll know when its the "her".

Obviously hitting the gym will help your SMV but in more reasons than muscles. It will help with confidence, clarity, t levels and even your scent. Sounds nuts but I am 100 percent convinced. I can extrapolate more in PM.I post about the gym a lot so I am trying not to be that guy. Definitely keep going.

 

[playa99]

You've got to stick at it!

You've got to believe in yourself that you can attract the hottest girl you can imagine!

Women in society have ALWAYS had a lot of options due to the millions & millions of desperate men out there. All that has happened now is that social media has exacerbated how many men have access to hot women at the click of a button.

You've got to get above this and TRULY believe that you ARE a great catch and any woman would be lucky to have you.

You have access to a plethora of knowledge on this website which gives you an edge on the average guy.

Keep on improving in every aspect of your life for YOU, not so you can bang Kate Upton and you will get there, a hot girl started her life the same as you and will end it the same as you.

I aint a model looking guy but I aint bad looking and I have had some smoking hot women over the years, some of the women I used to see are models now! All I did was treat them the same as any other woman regardless of how they look. Chances are if they are an ignorant person anyway they aren't good news for you!

 

[AgesDuctPro]

Couple quotes for you:

"A man's choice of woman is a reflection of his own worth."

"In the Orient young bulls are tested in a certain manner. Each bull is allowed to charge at a red flag, for which a picador pricks them with a lance. Their courage is then evaluated based on how many times they will continue to charge despite the pain."