Getting a chick's interest on social networking?

[Slash Dolo]

I'm not talking online dating, but social networks like Facebook, Twitter, etc. If there is one area of my game that I struggle with, it's anything not in person; which is okay for a lot of guys as they'll shun social networks anyway. But for me, my job (I work from home) can make it a challenge to spin a lot of plates at once, and there's some HB9's in the area that I have no way of contacting otherwise.

So yeah, any advice here? I've always had marginal success in the past with online stuff (usually I'd just invite some girls I didn't know on my friends list to some parties and they'd come) but as a whole it's difficult to game through Times New Roman. I believe it's more about how you say things rather than what you say, and it's so hard to convey this stuff digitally.

 

[SoulMan13]

From past experience, I've found it's a lot harder over social media because the women have a lot of men contacting them, you can't touch them and make a physical connection etc.

The best advice I could give you would be to be different from all the other guys that are contacting them. Most guys hit the girls messages sounding super thirsty. Set yourself apart by maybe opening up with a slight neg towards the girls (especially the hot girls). They'll be more likely to respond as the fact that you weren't up their ass from the jump will intrigue them.

Also, make sure your profile is lively. You can DHV over social media so easily. Always post pictures from events/parties etc that you've been to. It helps if there's women in the pictures too. Make sure you're not posting all the time though, because that will DLV. Interact with a few hot girls publicly (wall to wall) so the girls you're trying to hit up will see other hot girls are interested too.

A lot of likes on pictures help too, if we're talking Facebook, and a lot of followers if we're talking about Twitter. A big part of social media game is having a high level of social proof. When I use to use Facebook, I would get 100+ likes on pretty much each photo I would post. A couple years before that I would be lucky to get 5 per photo. The difference in the amount of girls that initiated contact with me when I was getting 100+ likes compared to when I was getting 5 was crazy. I still looked liked the exact same guy, but when girls started noticing that other girls also found me attractive they all wanted a piece of me too. The follower mentality is strife on social media. Make it work in your favor.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

How did u get from 5 to 100 likes?

 

[Poon King]

Here is the general rule for EASILY dating/f*cking women in ALL situations:

I like to use the drug dealer analogy. A drug dealer does not need to convince junkies to buy his drugs. All he needs to do is spread awareness that he has drugs for purchase. As a man.. flirting with women is your way of spreading awareness that you want to f*ck them. Those who find you attractive will follow your lead. Those who do not.. will not. Just like those who don't do drugs will ignore the drug dealer.

Men work WAY too hard trying to attract women. Not realizing that they don't really have to work hard at all. But they drink the blue pill female koolaid and buy into the idea that women are "complex" and unsure of what they want. This is false. Always has been and always will be. You as a man need to do VERY LITTLE to get laid with a woman who is actually interested. A responsive woman will always follow your lead.

Note that interested women WILL change their mind if you try too hard or don't seem to know what you're doing (not leading). You must lead and lead with confidence. This means not really caring what the woman wants or expects and only focusing on what YOU want or expect. Not that hard.

This is why the bold man wins in this game and the timid beta using "strategy" loses.

On Facebook all you need to do is make a comment about her profile followed by something along the lines of "you're cute". She will likely respond with "thank you". Then go farther and keep going until she either stops responding or f*cks you.

 

[skinnyguy]

Maybe go really direct? Like say the specific things you would do to her in bed. At least it will weed out the girls who are not DTF

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

My lady is a social media junky. What attracts her to a profile is some who looks busy with life. Pictures showing social validation help alot.

 

[BrainDamage92]

yeah talk dirty

Anyway this facebook **** is bullshiet dont buy into it.

 

[VladPatton]

Get off social media and stick to real world encounters, you know, where it fücking matters!