"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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waddup could anyone help on this. i'm in high school .15
I'm getting a cell phone in 3 days, and i was wondering how could how start getting girls numbers and stuff..like how do i pickup the girls den get their number on my cell phone.. well i'm not really asking how to pick dem up.. but if you culd help me on that it would be great..like i just moved to new york 3 weeks ago..and i'm making some friends..everyone has a phone..how do i ask girls for their number..and when i do call em , what to i talk about like, dats my problem i don't know what to talk about..do i just relax .talk about anythin..and end the convo wen i want .
alright thanks for the help.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What you mean by searching the forum- what to do i search for???
And what section is what i'm looking in the DJ BIBLE??
 
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