Getting a b*tch to stop calling

[Vanilla]

I mean she keeps wanting to talk and I ask "about what?" and she says "anything". I want to cut short because I do have other things to do with my life. (and i dont mean playing around on the internet, stuff like GOING TO WORK )

I know she's into me since the other guys have not called her back (what a suprise ) But I've tried ending it many MANY times saying excuses (which most were true)

"I gotta go"
"I'm alittle tired, ill talk to you later"
(even hinting to get out)

but she'd always say:
"Nooo talk to me please"
"Aww but you're alot of fun to talk to..please dont"

I mean she kept me talking for hours, and it was just small talk. The kind I should be doing when we actually meet. I'd hate to next this one since I'm low on women at the moment.

I feel like I have to beg to end the call, or even tell her to "SHUT THE F*CK UP"

Haha anyways, there might not be a cure for this one, but any helpful insight?

(BTW she's using the home number so my parents answer and gimme the phone to talk) I know stupid move, but I know never to do that again

I sound like I'm hating, but she hardly shows me respect and I don't like that.

 

[DEKKA]

dude when you wanna get out of something you don't have to look for a reason. you're the bro bro. good luck i think you know what to do.

 

[DEKKA]

btw where in cali you from playa?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Just say that you don't have time to play games, chit chat or whatever, tell her goodbye and hang up. Just keep doing it every time she calls. She'll get the message.

 

[Seeph]

that sucks

I had that problem once.. she kept calling my cell (10 times in 30 minutes) she was drunk but thats no excuse.. first 5 times the girl i was with answered and said I was busy.. the 6th time I answered and my exact words were "Listen <name>, I dont want to talk to your nasty, drunk ass, so stop calling me phone". I tried in the past to let the girl off easy with "I gotta go" "I'm busy" "Cant talk Ill call you if I feel like talking later"... but it didnt work so i had to give it to her hard. Just tell the girl something like...

"Listen I really like talking to you but when I tell you I have to go it means I have to go, Ill call you next time I'm available to talk for a while."

The ***** sounds psycho man.. I'd next her.

 

[DonJohn83]

I got the same thing happening to me bro. I layed down some handcore C+F on her when i met her (even though im not interested in her at all), and she cant get enough of it. I talk to her like a jerk and tell her to piss off, delete my number, call her a psycho and a stalker, but she just eats it up. She knows im not interested.

She's still calling me. I dont answer or reply to her SMS's but she's relentless. I dont wanna have to change my number. I wont. Damn psycho.

I've tried asking her nicely, ive tried being a jerk, ive tried ignoring her. What to do next, DJ's?????

 

[Eileen]

Oh this is easy. Go AFC on her. Write her some mushy but bad poems and insist she listen you you recite them over and over. Ring her back immediatly after hanging up with her saying you miss her already. Ring her again after you've hung up the second time and insist she allow you to read the poems again and yet again.

You could amuse yourself for days with this.

 

[Knicknack]

Originally posted by Eileen
Oh this is easy. Go AFC on her. Write her some mushy but bad poems and insist she listen you you recite them over and over. Ring her back immediatly after hanging up with her saying you miss her already. Ring her again after you've hung up the second time and insist she allow you to read the poems again and yet again.

You could amuse yourself for days with this.

great advice

 

[THA REALNESS]

Going afc might backfire cuaz somegirls (a lot them) like that stuff especially when they're all in that" show me love phase" i say just deal with it,you like her anyways you're just not up to talking every night i assume right??? so why next her? Just tell your parents "your not there" when you don't feel like talking .

 

[Eileen]

So what is it Realness? Does being a DJ work or does being an AFC work?

Trust me, if he were to turn around, tell this girl he's reconsidered and go on and on about how he was just scared and how full of all these feelings he is and how he just wants to cry because he knows he's found true love ... he'd be rid of her in a week.

That or she'd realize he'd made an azz out of her and she'd probably move on.

 

[b's nuts]

ever think about just hanging up on her?

 

[Eileen]

Oh ... hanging up will just piss her off. You don't want to piss her off if you don't have to. Pissed women flatten tires and the like. It would work much better to turn her off. Kill the attraction.

 

[THA REALNESS]

Originally posted by Eileen
So what is it Realness? Does being a DJ work or does being an AFC work?

Trust me, if he were to turn around, tell this girl he's reconsidered and go on and on about how he was just scared and how full of all these feelings he is and how he just wants to cry because he knows he's found true love ... he'd be rid of her in a week.

That or she'd realize he'd made an azz out of her and she'd probably move on.

I'm saying things backfire.Acting Afc backfires sometimes. Some Dj stuff backfires sometimes also, i dare someone to to do a neghit on a gheeto chic see how how THAT works out...i dare you..

Can i ask YOU a question Eileen ?? You know that as a female you can't be a Dj right ???

 

[Eileen]

Who said I wanted to be, Realness?

By the way, it's your master at arms, Dr. Love himself, that suggests going AFC in these type of situations. Perhaps you should familiarize yourself with his work before you start calling yourself a DJ.

 

[THA REALNESS]

Then what you are doing on this site in the first place obviously some of this stuff rattles you up a bit??


Edit: Don't give me that crap about "I wanna know how guys think so ic ould have a better love life" cuz it's not true if all you wann do is pick up guys go out put on a tight pair of jeans ,show a little cleavage ,smile and ask a boy for his number ....if that's what you are here for .


Doc Love ain't no freind of mine. LOl. I made a whole thread denonucing him once .

 

[THA REALNESS]

P.S i never said it doesn't work i said going afc to repell a chick ahs and can backfire.

 

[penkitten]

there are some people that just refuse to see the light of day and dont give up for a while no matter what you do.

kinda like they think its not over until they say its over.

if you try to go afc it could work.

however i have tried this and it did not work at all and had the very opposite effect.

i had to explain how i didnt want to talk to them anymore.
that didnt work.

i had to block numbers before.
that didnt work.

i even said that i was seeing someone else.
that made it worse.

when i finally mentioned a restraining order = bingo it worked.


good luck and fill us in on what works for you so we can pass it to the next person asking.