"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting 15 numbers in 15 minutes

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I'm thinking about trying to get 15 numbers in 15 minutes during my 15 minute break at work. In order to do this I will walk outside around all of the stores and try and get some numbers.But, is it possible?:confused:
I would also appreciate any tips.
Thx in advance.;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yea in the phone book you can find thousands of numbers just make sure you write them fast...

just kidding bro, i think its very hard because youre gonna have to be running from girl to girl, so youre gonna have to take 30 secs talking to each and then run the next 30 secs
 
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I'm thinking you need at least 2 minutes for each girl. Like, sh*t dude, would you give your number out to ever person that came up to you and talked to you for less than a minute? Keep dreaming, lol.
 
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Maybe if you were a celebrity this would be possible. And even if you were..I still bet you'd get rejected by 1 or 2 of them.

15 in 50 minutes sounds more like it. Even then...have fun with that. :rolleyes:
 
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or you could walk through downtown and hand out your number to a thousand women, hoping a couple cute, SANE, down to earth girls actually call you back.

imo both ideas sound kind of silly.

how about you do whatever makes you happy in life... and along the way, if a couple girls catch your interest, you talk to them and see what theyve got going on. if you like what you see in them so far, go out together to get to know eachother better.

live your life. if you see something you want, make it yours.

-SLB
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Make it a joke...

Say a friend bet you couldn't, so get them to do it. Surprise them by calling in a couple of days, just after they've had time to place it out of mind. Don't call them all! Women talk, remember.

As funny as the idea of handing out hundreds of your cards sounds, I actually tried this at several busy malls. In addition, I placed cards on the blades of each windshield. I've also posted ads for myself on hospital bulletin boards as they tend to have many females workers. Next, I locate the "smoking area" for the hospital and hang out there. Usually, every 15 minutes there is a new stream of smokers to talk to.

You've really got to get numbers going for you. I just realized tonight how many times I AM now the one who ignores most calls I get. I can remember when it used to be ME desperately calling and frustrated no one would answer. I'm probably not much better now than I was then, but I do have more numbers going for me since I fearlessly and shamelessly spam myself to any hot chic within reach.

Just some ideas.
 
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Ya, if you told them point blank that is what you were doing, I bet you would have a chance. Gotta frame it as a game though.
 
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A friend dared me to do it and I agreed. But, the only problem I have is that I don't have any cards. Any suggestions on how to go about trying to get all of the numbers?:confused:
 
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Here's how

Approach the entire group and speak to them as your audience. Tell them your buddy said there was no way you could get 15 numbers in 15 minutes from those girls. Act like this is all fun and games and say you want to prove him wrong.

The ladies will see this as a challange and may "rise up" to overcome it without much thought. Plus, it's "OK" to give out their number "because it's just a game". Have your phone or pen and paper ready to go. You DO NOT want them to have any time to think this over. Make sure the second hottest one writes first as the others will follow her lead. The hottest should not be allowed to write first in order to make her compete as she is your ultimate target. Make sense?

If it were me this is one time I'd really wait a full 2 days before calling. Also, if you can pull this off, then I believe you can make the hottest one in bed. Don't jgo for the easy hunt once you pass the first test: getting her number.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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no offense dude!!!! but reality CHECK!!! if you are getting 15 numbers in 15 mins! its not because you are a dj! its becasue you prob look almost as good as me!
 
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Re: Make it a joke...

Originally posted by everywomanshero
Say a friend bet you couldn't, so get them to do it. Surprise them by calling in a couple of days, just after they've had time to place it out of mind. Don't call them all! Women talk, remember.

As funny as the idea of handing out hundreds of your cards sounds, I actually tried this at several busy malls. In addition, I placed cards on the blades of each windshield. I've also posted ads for myself on hospital bulletin boards as they tend to have many females workers. Next, I locate the "smoking area" for the hospital and hang out there. Usually, every 15 minutes there is a new stream of smokers to talk to.

You've really got to get numbers going for you. I just realized tonight how many times I AM now the one who ignores most calls I get. I can remember when it used to be ME desperately calling and frustrated no one would answer. I'm probably not much better now than I was then, but I do have more numbers going for me since I fearlessly and shamelessly spam myself to any hot chic within reach.

Just some ideas.
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well put ... just tell em that its a bet
 
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If you can build rapport with a chick in average 1 min., as for her to give you her number and actually WANT you to call her... then God bless you.

Either way, tell me that you can get, shyt, two or even one phone number in fifteen minutes, from *cute* girls, AND follow them up with dates, all I can see the purpose. Remember, only mathematicians fvck with numbers.


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