"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gettin to know this girl..in my workplace

JH_ownage

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wassup dudes.im new here..show me pointers :)
ok i saw this very attractive girl..i wanted to approach but fear holds me bak.another point is she's always with a fren of hers,that makes me even harder to approach.im lost,what should i do?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I have a question for you. Have u ever turned down a two for one deal? Think of her friend as that...you can meet two ppl with one approach. In the words of nike...just do it. Confidence is king.
 

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ok but i got no intention for the other girl LOL
whats some good pickup line?
"hi im jh,can i get to know u?" will tat do?or something?
comments and advice! thanks
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
date + work = trouble
oops sorry..im like quitting the job soon..so we wont see each other anymore..thats y i wan her contact..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You'd think you were walking into battle buddy. She's a human being!Ain't gonna bit ya.

Get up walk over talk to her like a normal person.

But no, it can't be that simple right?
 
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