Gettin played... thats what im thinkin...

[DJ Miquelo]

Yo guys been about these forums for a while but this is my first post.

K heres the deal. I met this girl at uni a short while ago and when i first met her i could tell she wanted a piece but tbh i wasnt really interested for one reason or another... cant remember why not at the moment. Right so fast forward to lately and this girl now has a boyfriend.

This girl has been flirting excessively with me in nightclubs and generally about uni (basically everywhere her boyfriend is not...). Some of the things she does are pretty ridiuclous and excessively sexual which are amusing at the time. However, when i think about it now im thinking that she is clearly using me to get her kicks when her boyfriend is not around. My analysis is that she's an AW and is just looking for some sort of sexual recognition from a dude cos she aint gettin what she needs from her bf.

Her friends tell me that she wants to 'shag' me and all this. Altho it doesnt really matter what they or she says actually cos its actions that count here and she is still with this borefriend of hers.

So basically guys my deal here is id quite like to at least get something out of this chick. Should i stay away from this ho and not allow her to get her sexual suppliments from me? (cos thats what i think i should do) Any ideas on any methods i might be able to use to handle this girl with a bf? (im just wanting some reassurance im correct in this instance) :crazy:

Peace bros (sorry bout the wall)

 

[slaog]

The best thing you can do is look out for other girls. This girl seems to be playing games. She might like you but she sounds like a cheating wh0re. Why would you want someone like that?


If she really likes you she'll chase you. At the moment it seems that she knows you like her and likes the attention. Thats the impression I got from what you said.

 

[usscrum]

make a move. if she doesn't go for it then move on.

 

[DJ Miquelo]

yeah slaog thats what im doing. Im not like fixated on this girl by any stretch.

Im not showering her with attention or anything like that btw just to be clear. Infact im hardly giving her much attention as it is and i can see it pisses her off bigtime when i just ignore her. I know theres other girls about the joint and im certainly having some fun with them

but yeah i get ya. Im not overly bothered about this situation tbh anyway i was just wondering what u DJs thought of it all.

just out of interest usscrum what kinda move do u have in mind? cos i woulda thought my options are a bit limited here moveswise. I may be wrong... thats why im asking!

Either way ive got a handle on this shiz now and i think i know what im gonna do. Im most likely just gonna cold shoulder her cos shes just wasting my time with her sh!t.

 

[Kevin Feng]

I say go for it.

As far as the whole dating game goes, this has always been my philosophy, just because someone has the label of a boyfriend or girlfriend, it doesn't really tell you the health of their relationship.

And since we're all pretty young here, cheating is part of the game, it happens all the damn time, it happens to the best of us. As far as I'm concerned, you're just doing the guy a favor, the sooner he finds out, the sooner he can dump her ass.

Plus, in the dating game, it's survival of the fittest, quite literally, if a better option comes along, naturally, you're going to take it.

-Kevin

 

[epicwinner]

if you can control your emotions and if you don't get too emotionally attached to this girl, go for it and make her your FWB

but if you can't, then stay away.. don't play her game

 

[DJ Miquelo]

Thanks for the responses so far guys.

epicwinner, yeah im not exactly emotionally attached to this girl like at all,

if im honest im just looking for a bit of 'fun' with her. nothing serious i dont think

 

[King Turi]

Chicks cheat all the time bang her and move on.