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Alexbmx

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Ok i know this is a really newb question but oh well. I feel really good at talking to girls, making them laugh, teasing them etc. What i cant seem to get down is physical contact. Im not a touchy person at all and after reading all the pua info, i realize the fact that i dont ever touch girls when i talk to them is a reason I end up in the friendzone a lot. The times I end up moving forward with girls is when they initiate contact and push things a bit. Then I can take it from there.

So im asking for some coaching on how to be the one to at least set the physical tone so a girl might be more likely to start touching or at least know not to put me in the FZ. Thanks for any info.
 

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Alexbmx said:
Ok i know this is a really newb question but oh well. I feel really good at talking to girls, making them laugh, teasing them etc. What i cant seem to get down is physical contact. Im not a touchy person at all and after reading all the pua info, i realize the fact that i dont ever touch girls when i talk to them is a reason I end up in the friendzone a lot. The times I end up moving forward with girls is when they initiate contact and push things a bit. Then I can take it from there.

So im asking for some coaching on how to be the one to at least set the physical tone so a girl might be more likely to start touching or at least know not to put me in the FZ. Thanks for any info.
Dude...you don't get put in the friendzone because of you not touching a girl,or because of a lack of kino. You get friendzoned because you don't show your SEXUAL INTEREST to a girl in those first few moments of meeting her.


You said you're good at talking to girls,teasing them,and making them laugh.


Well that's cool and all,but my question is,after you do all that talking,teasing,and making them laugh......DO YOU ASK THEM OUT???


Do you ask the chicks out on dates,or do you just talk,tease,and make them laugh for weeks and week and weeks,into months?


You said the only time things seem to move forward is when THE GIRL initiates and makes thing happen.

You gotta change that. If you continue to just sit back and wait for the chick to advance things physically,you're in for one hell of a sucky dating life.
 

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Don't force any touching as it just comes naturally man, you don't have to force touching her just because kino says it. With due respect to that technique of course.

As you comes off naturally, it brings out the best in you.
If you don't feel like it, then don't do it.
 

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Don't force any touching as it just comes naturally man, you don't have to force touching her just because kino says it. With due respect to that technique of course.

As you comes off naturally, it brings out the best in you.
If you don't feel like it, then don't do it.

He is doing what's natural, and that's not touching, so nature needs to be suppressed for a better outcome.

Just start small and work your way up. If she doesn't reciprocate, then she isn't interested and you jet. Shoulder touching, arm touching, hand on the small of her back after you hold the door, grab her hips and pull her towards you when posing for a pic (that's a huge one), high five with a long grip, shıt like that. You then gauge her reaction and decide from there.

Good luck.
 
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