"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gettin her # through Chat...[2nd Time]!

MaxPayne

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here is the deal i've been talkin 2 this gurl dat i met through Myspace 3 or 4 months ago.....nd i've already i asked her for her number about a month ago or sumthin ....nd she said she will give it to me in a concert that was being held in our city!......but the Concert comes nd i dont see her there ....i think she didnt go.......but anyway yesterday we were chatting and havin sooo much FUN!...nd this happened b4 she leaves:

Her: ..........[joke that i am older than her by 3 months]
Her: anyways hunn
Her: im too tireddd
Her:goinn to sleepp
Her:ttyl mwah xx <3
Me: heheh! [for that joke ]
Me: okay!
Her: take care hun xxx
Me: hey lsn !
Me: Ooi b4 u go !
Her: yea?
Me: wats ur number?
Her: 911
Her: :p
Me: :rolleyes:
Me: yah mine is 112 !
Me: :p
Me: yah seriously wats ur cell # ?
Her: 911
Her: :p

.......and she goes offline!


now do i ask her again the next time we talk? do i start chatting with her next time? or should ignore her till she starts talkin?.....:trouble: btw i don wanna go out with her ...but she has alot of HOT friends!!...i could benefit from that!


thnx for any replys give!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Vice

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I just cringed from reading that. She's gone stale. What she did by telling you she'd give it to you at a concert is blow you off, she could have given it to you right there. She does not think much of you.

Next time, you need to build a little more rapport with her.

I prefer saying "Hey, let me give you a call some time, what's your phone number?"

Next.

By the way, stop using Instant Messaging, the ability for a girl to know where you are and what you're doing isn't good, it makes you more predicatable. Stick to myspace messages and the phone. But no texting.
 

tsmith2334

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Vice said:
By the way, stop using Instant Messaging, the ability for a girl to know where you are and what you're doing isn't good, it makes you more predicatable. Stick to myspace messages and the phone. But no texting.
That's only if you let it tell her that. Your away message/ profile could have anything in it. You can make it as telling or mysterious as you like.

I instant message girls every now and then, I don't overdo it though. If I'm interested in a girl, I might IM her once every two weeks... if that. Who knows, they might even initiate contact with you.

Anyway, you asked her for her number and basically got rejected. Doesn't seem like she's feeling you. I wouldn't keep talking to her on a regular basis, but I'm not the type to next a girl so fast either. Maybe keep her around, ask for a number again in a couple weeks and see if she's more receptive.
 

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Thnx for all the tips guys ...but i already said that i am not that intrested in goin out with her!...she just happens to know many hot gurls !...could have been for my benefit!....


ohh nd btw she did initiate contact with me[bout my PM] ...askin me if i saw a Celebrity in a mall ??.........i ignored her ....she kept askin ...finally i answered nd said yes i did!..........she started askin which day n wat time!.....FINALLY turns out we both were at the mall the SAME TIME!...SAME DAY!...SAW the CELEB!...but didn see each otha !........


thats when i busted her balls bout it ...that she must gimme her number!....but she kept goin back and forth the SAME SNEAKY attitude;p ...

in the end she said : BRB!
i wait 2 mins then say: wat did u go 2 call ur gf...2 ask her if u should give ur # 2 me! ;p

i wait around 5 mins then say: hey u know wat forget it!
i don even want it anymore!

after 10 mins she replys: yes i did asked her {her gf^}
:p
SHE NUDGES ME!....{i keep ignoring}
she goes like : are u mad?

i also ignore!.....nd we havin talked since THEN !





thnk u for reading!:p..........any DJ comments will be appreciated!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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