Geting Girl Friends

[DJnoob]

Hello,

Im a guy, with only guy friends.. sure, i talk to women but i just dont have any women friends that I hang out with..

im talking about just friends, going out to see movies, go out to have fun with, etc..

as you can see, i haven't bloomed yet.. but how do you get girl friends? lets say at work, i work with women there.. i noticed many of the women there hang out with the guys there.. i wuold just hear stuff about they did the night before, and how they went drinking and shi3t like that..

So.. do i just go up to them and ask them for their number to see if they want to just hang out and have a good time?

Please share your thoughts and experiences..

Thank you and if you got something nasty to say, go ahead, i dont care.

Peace-

 

[spider_007]

It's like making any other friends, you have fun, ask for their no. go hang out..................

 

[DJDamage]

You don't ask for their numbers when they work with you because you would come off as if you are trying to pick them up. (which in essence is exectly what you should be doing with women but not at work).

You are better off befriending one of the guys at work and he might invite you to hang out with them one night.

Why would you want to hang out with women to see movies or go have fun anyway?? Get yourself a woman that you can date and fvck and then you can hang out with her.

 

[DJnoob]

Originally posted by DJDamage
You don't ask for their numbers when they work with you because you would come off as if you are trying to pick them up. (which in essence is exectly what you should be doing with women but not at work).

You are better off befriending one of the guys at work and he might invite you to hang out with them one night.

Why would you want to hang out with women to see movies or go have fun anyway?? Get yourself a woman that you can date and fvck and then you can hang out with her.

so dont hang out with women that you work with meaning don't ask for their number?

sure, i want to fvck women, but not all, im just looking for girl friends, you know?

i get depressed when i hear them when my co workers talk about what they did last night

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

hey kid, I hope I dont sound harsh, if I do, dont take it like that alright.

Waiting around for some co-worker to invite you to a party or for some friend for that matter, to call you up and say lets go to the Mardi Gras( or any kind of party you get the picture) is like waiting outside in the rain for Jesus to come back riding on a white horse.

Find out whats going on around town, and start out going out by yourself, hell I do it sometimes kid, and I am the life of the party, I start out not knowing anybody but by time the party is over, it doesnt seem like I came by myself. It wont look like you came alone unless you stand against the wall (which you ought to know is death row, dont do it).

So go out and do approaches and make new acquaintances. If you need an example of a good approach, reply and I will help ya bro.

 

[DJDamage]

so dont hang out with women that you work with meaning don't ask for their number?

sure, i want to fvck women, but not all, im just looking for girl friends, you know?

i get depressed when i hear them when my co workers talk about what they did last night

You can hang out with women that you work with but don't come in all desperate and try to get their numbers so you can do so.

You don't look for girl friends, girl friends end up finding you. If you are a cool guy both sexes would want to hang around you. You got to work on your self first and then you will attract people who will want to hang with you.

If you don't work on your self, you will end up being more depressed when you get to that party because you don't have anything interesting or exciting to talk about. Its not the party that makes an event interesting but the people who make the event interesting.

Make yourself a life first by getting into interesting hobbies, working out, travelling, picking up a few more social skills and you won't force the issue and people will actually want to befriend you.

 

[DJnoob]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
hey kid, I hope I dont sound harsh, if I do, dont take it like that alright.

Waiting around for some co-worker to invite you to a party or for some friend for that matter, to call you up and say lets go to the Mardi Gras( or any kind of party you get the picture) is like waiting outside in the rain for Jesus to come back riding on a white horse.

Find out whats going on around town, and start out going out by yourself, hell I do it sometimes kid, and I am the life of the party, I start out not knowing anybody but by time the party is over, it doesnt seem like I came by myself. It wont look like you came alone unless you stand against the wall (which you ought to know is death row, dont do it).

So go out and do approaches and make new acquaintances. If you need an example of a good approach, reply and I will help ya bro.

damn i got work at 3, ill be back here.. yes i do need some help, i need help from someone like you! seriously, be back in 7 hours

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by DJDamage


You don't look for girl friends, girl friends end up finding you. If you are a cool guy both sexes would want to hang around you. You got to work on your self first and then you will attract people who will want to hang with you.

Thats right. if you're interesting enough they will find you. They will call you out to do stuff if they find you interesting.
do they have another agenda? well since theyre a girl and you're a guy , they might as well!!

I have a female co-worker who i get along with quite well... of course i can make her into a friend or not at all, because it isnt important to me.

but if i ask her to come hangout with me and my friends, it's a double edged sword. She might get the wrong idea im asking her out, and i dont want her to think "I like her" in that kind of way....cause i dont.
SO now im debating if i should even bother at all...cause all the signs point to her liking me.

it's possible to get something beneficial out of having female friends tho, fvck buddy!