"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Get women by being cheap

everywomanshero

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You guys remember old dirty basturd right? Well, I think my nick should be
OLD Cheap Basturd. The funny thing is I later realized being cheap has
been a major key to my success with women.

I know it sounds funny, but this is true story ****.

1. Rings: When it comes time to buy that ring she's going to go
look in those mall places with you and Tiffany's. That's a big ass
mistake right there. If you really wanna marry this girl just look
online to find out what she likes and then go to the pawn shop
to get something similar. For 200$ I got a ring that looks better
than a 2000$ ring in any mall. Thrown in a Herlzburg case for an
extra 5$. ANother thing I've done before is taken a girl I just met
into a diamond store and we pretend like we are getting engagged
as a joke. Future projection seemed to work because she was hooked
every since that momment and later even got my name tatooed on her
leg.

2. I don't really know about the dinner thing. I've gotten laid by some very hot girls off dinner dates, so I don't want to discourage anyone. There is pros and cons, but I only do this is I have a very specific feeling. In general, I am too cheap for this. General rule is no, but if I commit to it then I'll do something descent. Machoism can be taken too far, but so can nice guy BS.
Definitely once we are seeing each other I am going to opt for Picnics or making a restaruant at home. I can make a crazy mad ambience for cheap at home. I use food stamps for most of the items except the wine. All the acessories are reusebale. By doing this she has a great time, we are way more likely to have awesome sex since the stresses of driving and all the people bickering around us is out, and when I do finally take her out to eat she will actually appreciate it instead of considering it typical and boring. On days around the city if I drive I pack a grill. Instead of paying stupid ass food fees, I pull up in a park and start grilling out. Chicks, esp ones with kids, love this. Also, the kids like to feed any animals that are around. Lincoln park zoo in Chicago is a great place to do this and lots of gulls come up to be fed. It's fun.

3. Movies. I got this off Deangelo's guest speakers, I think brent, but I rarely take a girl I havent been dating for months to the movies. I've found I am 10x more likely to close her if I rent a movie. If she has kids I rent 2. One we can watch together and then one scary one. I will use the scary one as an excuse to stay after the kids go to bed. HER ASD will make her say I should go, but I will always stay unless she gets confrontational and basically kicks me out. Otherwise I stay. I've laid several MILFS this way including one extremely hot blonde who did have a stinky ***** but who cares she was hot and a great ONS.

When I'm not cheap: I spring for fancy ass vacations and when I am on R and R I don't hold back. I fvcking hate having to go back to a place because I missed out on something cool, just one cool thing that I could've and should've done. I am never really cheap regarding things *I* personally want to do and see in life.

Being cheap makes me a challenge for them to win over, they can't just point and snap and expect me to do as they wish which is exactly what 99% of all men today will do if there is even a remote chance of getting approval from a woman. It forces me to keep changing stuff up all the time, so it adds some unpredictable and spontanious behavior to me. Also because she cant see me buy or set this stuff up, it adds an element of surprise in many cases. If my goal is to close the girl, then I close her. There is no sense trying harder than required to lay a girl if that is all you want from her is one lay to conquer her vagina. I've laid so many Internet girls the first night with watching movies routine it's not even funny.






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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BuckwildNYC

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It's funny cause I know a couple cheap guys that do very well with women. The thing they have in common is that they are VERY sexual. They get girls taking about anal sex and if they swallow before even going out with them. At that point its not even about going out on dates, it's more about when is the biatch coming to his place to get laid. It's a skill I need to learn. I spend way too much money and sometimes get no ass. But to be honest I LIKE to go out so I really do it for me more than anything. But it would be nice to get some free ass sometimes too :rockon:
 

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everywomanshero said:
MILFS this way including one extremely hot blonde who did have a stinky ***** but who cares she was hot and a great ONS.
MILFs have lower value and thus lower standards. Fine for fvcks, though.

Although, if her meathole stinks, I ain't stickin' my meat in there! :woo:
 

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hey good post you don't need to spend lots of money on women thanks for the info
 

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lol ya I'm a cheap bastard too. (Girls verbally said it to me) I've never spent more than 2 dollars on a girl, but I've got alot of stuff from girls which is what I love. Anyway I liked some of your ideas...

The ring thingy is a good roleplaying routine that you could use, you can actually act it out too, go into a jewelry store and say your getting married, etc. Then telling the worker about where your going to have your honey moon lol. Even funnier would be to propose in the store by using one of her own rings lol. Many funny little adventures you can make out of this.

While I haven't went out to a real resturant with a girl I have been to like mcdonalds and subway, which I got them to pay for both of us. I really love food at resturants and want to bo a cook so it would be nice to have girls pay for the high end resturants that way I can have some nice food.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BuckwildNYC said:
It's funny cause I know a couple cheap guys that do very well with women. The thing they have in common is that they are VERY sexual. They get girls taking about anal sex and if they swallow before even going out with them. At that point its not even about going out on dates, it's more about when is the biatch coming to his place to get laid. It's a skill I need to learn. I spend way too much money and sometimes get no ass. But to be honest I LIKE to go out so I really do it for me more than anything. But it would be nice to get some free ass sometimes too :rockon:
You're absolutely right!!! It's the craft of being very, VERY SEXUAL with women in a RESPECTABLE WAY. It's not so much of us having the knowledge and charm to pull it off, it's HAVING THE HUGE BALLS TO BE BLUNT ABOUT IT IN THE VERY EARLY STAGES OF MEETING HER.
 

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If you had a BIG BLACK PENIS like, Lexington Steele, you wouldn't even have to talk about anal sex to get it, it would just be offered to you.

Likewise if your BANK ACCOUNT was full of CASH like, Rod Stewart, you wouldn't even have to spend one cent of it, the hot babes would just offer their arses over to your free services without you even asking for it.

It is a VERY STRANGE world that we are living within my friends. :crackup:
 

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I might be a bit cheap with a lot of things but i wouldn't be cheap about getting a ring for my girlfriend if we get engaged. I would probably spend at least a couple of thousand dollars.
 

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OzyBoy said:
I might be a bit cheap with a lot of things but i wouldn't be cheap about getting a ring for my girlfriend if we get engaged. I would probably spend at least a couple of thousand dollars.
ain't nothin wrong with that ozyboy
 

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You can get a ring that is worth 3k for less than 500$ at pawn shops. It won't be any different except lacking the warranty. However, you could go through 6 rings and still be even :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Take a girl on a bank robbin' date. Not only are you not spending money, you're MAKING it.
 
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