"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Today ive been talkin to this girl...ive told her my cell phone number and she called me like 2 hours later (at night).

so like 2 days later (today) i ask for HER cell phone number and she says are you gonna tell some other person (she doesnt want the other person to know - remain nameless). All i said was, "actually nvm, i dun want it"

by this time, i think she realized her chance of giving me her phone number was going down. she asked me why i didnt want it, and im like "cuz u wont pick up" (i said this kinda randomly)

the next thing i know, she gives me her home phone and cell phone too. I'm pretty sure she likes me but thats not the point...

THE POINT is that i didnt give a friggen dam about it....i told her that i wanted her phone number, which made her realize that if she told it to me she would get calls from me! So then instead of me 100% asking for it...she gave it to me in a way. This means that she'll be waiting for a call, or at least shell start thinking about me when she stares at her phone or soemthing.....

But anyways.....REVERSE PSCOLOGY (dont know how to spell that dam word) can sometimes be the key to success. If i kept asking her to give me her phone number, id seem like a desperate loner, or even a loser, but instead i didn it the don juan way!!! Also i didnt "really" care if she gave it to me or not....and i kept the thought in my mind that "she does like me, and she DOES want to give me her phone number". And she did!

So the next time you guys really really want something, plz dont beg for it like a dog....u r better than women, show that u are better than her.

This REVERSE PSYCOLOGY could actually lead to her not tellin u her number...but doing this is purely out of the fact that "you dont give a dam what they say"

Good luck guys.....feel free AND i mean FREE to add any commits (plz do) or suggestions to this post.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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