"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aesthetix29

Aesthetix29

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okay to cut a long story short .. I met this girl ... And we've been texting for a month or so ... She lives about a 40 minute drive from me (60 miles) and we arranged to meet up and go out on a Wednesday .. 2 weeks ago .. The thing is once we'd arranged it .. It never got mentioned again and I didn't bother going due to this ... And now she's really short in her texts as if she's losing interest. This was an error on both out parts .. And she keeps indicating that we may aswell be pen pals haha! Cani turn this around or is it dead in the water? Cheers
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lozboss

Lozboss

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Dead.

Don't be a pen pal- you get nothing from that.

Delete her number and ghost her.

Lesson 1. Be a man of action. Steer the ship. Do not be a passenger. Jettison any cargo that is not worth its weight to haul.
 
dustmuffin

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It's 60 miles....LDR? It won't work. Next and find someone local.
 
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