"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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get the #, how far do you go until you stop calling?

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1st call, i usually don't leave a message

2nd call (a couple days later), i'll leave a message

3rd call, (sometimes make that 3rd call; not all the time) i'll leave no message

if she doesn't get back to me @ this point, i don't pursue any further. any of you guys handle these situations differently? are you more aggressive? if so, any good results?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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just go twice and thats it. More than that you look like a physcho and/or desperate.
 
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You're on a good track with that, if the ***** doesnt want to answer then **** it. But the 3rd time I'd leave a threatening message, like "**** you , you piece of trash slut", trust me you'd get attention and you'd never know seriously think logically about that.

Fot matt, it also shows you're know *****, make her see it your way, why should you have to see it hers?

Trust me, my sister is considered to be pretty good looking or w/e and she does that to guys all the time and then shows off about it to me, she just like the attention. So in return, just show them that you're a real man and someone that's strong somthing these broads want.:woo: :woo:
 

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ima -- what are you trying to say? I couldnt really follow you. if you wanna be a man then show you can control yourself and not cal lher anymore. you look like a kid if you say that sh!t to her (trashy slvt) yea dude youll have a shot after that.
 
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maybe it was all the foul language lol :crazy:

okay I'll make it more simple.

in a nutshell... She's disrespecting you by not answering, so disrespect her even worse verbally, showing that you're not some *****.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ima-- bad avice. Why leave a bitter message? Just shows she got to you. Game over.

I get a number, call once and no answer or doesn't get back to me if I leave a message? Fine, I'll give her the benefit of the doubt. More than two times, and you're probably too attached to this one chick.
 

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if you ask a girl out once and you talk to her but never meet her up because she gives you sam. then is it ok to ask her out a second time?
 

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ima str8 up pimp said:
maybe it was all the foul language lol :crazy:

okay I'll make it more simple.

in a nutshell... She's disrespecting you by not answering, so disrespect her even worse verbally, showing that you're not some *****.

it's better not to say ****. why get worked up by a girl you barely even know?
 

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john - do this to 10 girls whos #s u got, and half of them will NOT pull this **** on u,,,,the other half, just forget about them cuz hey, u got the good half!
 

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ima str8 up pimp said:
But the 3rd time I'd leave a threatening message, like "**** you , you piece of trash slut", trust me you'd get attention and you'd never know seriously think logically about that.

So in return, just show them that you're a real man and someone that's strong somthing these broads want.:woo: :woo:
That could be the most lack of information I've ever read. Oh yea, she'll come crawling back to you after you call her a piece of trash slut. Because you're a REAL man. :rolleyes:

ima str8 up pimp said:
She's disrespecting you by not answering, so disrespect her even worse verbally, showing that you're not some *****.
Oh yea, just bring yourself down to her level, that will definitely show her.

Are you purposely giving all this bad advice, or is this what you really think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MattS said:
just go twice and thats it. More than that you look like a physcho and/or desperate.
listen.. first call should be 3 days....

and then go by ear..

I met this ONE HOT MODEL... listen.. I was calling her like once every 2 weeks to once a month, just to say high for like 5 months (i.e. a hot girl like that has always something going on... turns out she was in between 2 millionares)... anyways..

finally.. she called me and asked if I was busy... saw her that night.. took her out.. we had a blast, made vication plans for following weekend.. pretty much didnt call her all week.. took her out following weekend and fcked her...

point is.. you have to go by ear.. i.e. if she mad hot, you can try to call her and pretend to be "friendly" i.e. "Hey, how you doing, whats new, are you in town, okay, talk to you later" ... notice, when she finally comes out, you have to put the physical/touch game on, i.e. DJ her...

by the way.. the girl in my story is a 10+... my type 100% i didnt care what it would take, I just wanted her... so even when she said she would call back and didnt, I just acted like it never even happend ;) and played it cool.. and when the timming was right, my d.ck was in her as.s and what a fine as.s it was :)
 
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