"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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get the girl while watching a movie-need your tips!

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Well Espi Im not hear to pick any fights. Im also not going to defend my philosophy point by point. Rep is important.

Pig, Ass, Perv... these are negative reps. If you dont back it up with charisma/HSM you are going to get labeled. If the pulling out your **** works for you more power to you.

I am really starting to focus on 18-20 year olds. They are so stupid and emotionally inexperienced it is just ridiculous. Someone like me or even you Im sure just blows there mind. Unfortunately I think there is a huge stigma attached to being "nice" on this board. Most guys here were the wrong kind of nice.

Maybe I am not nice and just think I am. I definately argue that I am nice. I argue against girls saying I am bad. I want that perception initially. I dont ask permission for anything though.

I have a downright ill reputation that gets me everywhere. Look up nice in the dictionary. It is not a synonym for weak. Technically America is nice and the world is America's *****.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i was watching a movie with my last gf. first night, bam, kissed her.
 

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lol if that's what mystery does to get laid then wtf is up with all his actual method bullsh!t.

He basically just rapes them by indirectly. lol

Anybody can do that.
 

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You have to keep in mind that not all girls are the same too. Being "nice" gets you access to those sexually aggressive techniques. They have their guard down. I get girls to give me head and they didn't even know they were going to.

It also allows you to use persuassion and charm. There is much less chance a girl will flip out on you. You don't need that. If you piss her off and she is hot you might have to call your back ups to fend off the hit she calls out on you.

My smoothness is hypnotic.

ya, this boards defines nice as lame/weak. I think what it is is that AFCs come here and they don't understand why they can't get the girl that they like even though she says he is nice. It is not that nice is bad it is just that he is lame and she can't say oh I like him and all he is lame! So they say he is nice as the only compliment they can pull. The truth is he probably wasn't even nice. He probably did nice things expecting something in return. Girls know when you want something in return.

Hugh Hefner is da man. And he isnt using convoluted seduction techniques. He knows what he wants, they know what he wants. He is nice about it and loving for what they give him.
 

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Espi I've actually done this before. I never consciously thought of it as a technique though. If I have a girl over and she gets me all horny then won't fvck or do anything then I go for the handj*b. If she won't give me a handj*b then I just whip it out and do it myself. Ive done this on several occassions and the girl never gets freaked out -- she actully likes it and it seems like it turns them on. I think for especially prude women it would also help them get used to the idea of being sexual with you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Espi said:
Old school masculinity never goes out of style.

If you look back on your sexual conquests, I'll bet you discover you seduced women in no small part due to the primal manifestation. Words and intelligence get you there, but eventually a man has to be...manly. Not saying you're not manly. Just demonstrating my point.
OK, right.

So why in God's name do you need all this fake trickery to get them? If a guy is such a bloody stud, just jump them and have sex.

Geez, if you have the balls to whip out your wang and start jerking off in front of a girl, I'm sure you can reach over and grab her boobs. Yeesh.
 
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