Get the feeling like im not cool enough...

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Ya. I know it sounds immature. Recently i've been dating this one girl, and whenever we talk about things from the past or childhood,etc. I really have nothing much to say. I wasnt too sheltered in my childhood, but it seems like it. I've done a few exciting things, but I get the feeling like I have to be a bad ass to get more respect form her. I've always busted her chops, and do things like push her when we're walking on the side walk or jokingly lock her out the car,etc. But other than that it seems boring, my gut feeling is really telling me that she's not gonna show complete full attraction until she really notices me do something spectacular. What must i do to really pique this girls attraction? we've been dating for about a month now and i think its goin downhill.

 

[PRMoon]

Welcome to a relationship. Please keep your arms and legs inside the cart at all times and enjoy the ride!

 

[Vice]

You're trying to impress her.

Stop that.

You don't need to "impress" anyone, dude.

 

[Triple T]

You're trying to impress her.

Stop that.

You don't need to "impress" anyone, dude.

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Just have FUN!
Your worrying too much about trying to impress her that your just turning the relationship boring. Instead you should be enjoying your time with her and having fun!

FUN is the key word here...

 

[fertileTurtle]

Give her a solid spanking.

 

[Vice]

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Just have FUN!
Your worrying too much about trying to impress her that your just turning the relationship boring. Instead you should be enjoying your time with her and having fun!

FUN is the key word here...

Fun is indeed the key word.

If you focus on having fun, you'll go so damn far.

I learned this the hard way over the weekend. Fun relieves any anxiety you may have. It makes you carefree and not needy.

 

[Sir I]

everything to be saidhas been said above. especially the part of NOT thinking about impressing her.

What do you want? that she's all over you saying gimmeyofonenumba you are so unbelievably cool, I LOVE YOU i'd rob a bank for you just to touch your hand?

you'd dump her ass any time if she did that to you, and she is not looking for you to be all over her. be cool enjoy.

and you could spank her, it all depens on how you say it and where you say it.

 

[Huffman]

- edit: nvm, feel free to delete this post -

 

[Mavrick]

You're trying to impress her.

Stop that.

You don't need to "impress" anyone, dude.

Great advice!

You have to let the moment flow on it's own. You should not force anything.

Don't impress her. Let her qualify herself to you. That's your problem. Your trying to qualify to her, but why? She's just a chick. Nothing special about that.

 

[DonJuanit0]

First of all! You can easily lie to her about your childhood! Say you did something that you didn't! You might even find it exciting making up stories! Certainly doesn't mean that you will lie 24/7 about your life to her! Try to be funny is more of a gift I would say which can certainly get improved by everyone! If you are trying so hard to be funny you will fail and you might look like stupid or something! Try harder I would say with a bit of maturity in your actions! Don't kick her just to be funny!

DonJuanit0 out!!

 

[Skel]

Cool is a matter of opinion. Nerds rule the world anyways. Ask Bill Gates

 

[The Deacon]

The reason you're not "cool" enough is cause you think that you need to do something "spectacular" to impress this girl. When you're cool, you don't try to impress people because you don't need their approval in the first place.

Unless you're a really big dork. Then that's not cool.